Originally Posted by P J Mutton
I'm quite passionate about getting involved in ex-curricular political activities
Those aren't college-based, as far as I know, so your college choice shouldn't affect your chances to pursue that interest.
i'd quite like a state/independent mix
Every college has that.
and would like a fairly friendly college.
That's subjective, really, and depends on who you meet, but I can't think of any specifically
unfriendly college.
So those aren't really criteria by which you can narrow down your choices... I'd say visit Oxford if you can and have a look at some colleges to see whether any one in particular strikes your fancy. If that doesn't help, though, and you still find you kind of like them all, you might as well make a random decision or make an open application.
People are making far too much of a fuss about college choice in my opinion - at the end of the day, the factors which will most affect your (un)happiness at a certain college are things which you can't influence, like the people you'll meet once you're there.
Obviously if you do find yourself liking a college for relatively arbitrary reasons like nice people at the open day, a friend who went there and thought it was awesome, pretty buildings or the fact that they have a strong rowing team, you may as well choose that one. But either way, chances are that there isn't just one "perfect" college for you out there, so there's not much point in agonising over it at length, as some people do...
