Hey, this is my first post on here. I didn't know where else to go to ask if I should be embarrassed or not?
I have done anal sex once before and there were no accidents, but we only tried it for not very long, as we had no lube and it was way too dry for me.
Last night we tried it again because I was on my period and I wanted to have sex with him before we both go to uni soon. I went toilet 2/3 hours beforehand and had a good wash aswell.
We then had the sex but at the end, I realised when he had pulled out there was a small mess on the condom.. he didn't say anything about it, and I didn't either and didn't feel bad about it because I thought it was expected to happen if we were doing it up the bum.
There was some mess in my knickers after when I got home aswell, and I just wondered if I should feel embarrassed about the accident.. I mean, something like that was expected to happen, I'm just worried about what he will think abut me?
i think the mere fact that you were wearing a condom saved it for you. If any "mud" had gotten on his "sausage" directly there would've been altercations. One piece of advice wash ur secondary tunnel a few minutes before the train diverts into it.( you know what i mean)
I think something like this would be expected. I wouldnt mind anal if the girl was up for it too if the usual route was "unavailable". Like what JoeyJim said, it would make it alot worse if his "sausage" got dirty
(Original post by Anonymous)
Just be glad you didn't **** all over his willy, as often happens when boys pull out.
It's totally natural (and really common) for there to be some "mess" after someone pokes you up your poo passage.