(Original post by _Shanice_)
Because he didn't want to take advantage of a girl in an intoxicated state means that he must be gay?! He said that he hasn't done any of that with a girl before, so naturally he would have been nervous, and the fact that he didn't sleep with her while she was very drunk shows that he had some respect for the girl and wasn't a complete **** basically.
By the sounds of it, she wasn't that drunk. I mean if you were able to have a conversation with her then she wasn't totally wasted. If she wanted sex, then how are you being nice to her by saying no? Fair enough, if you don't want to then don't. But don't not have sex because you think it'll make her feel bad. Ok, if it's pretty obvious she's uncomfortable then it might be worth making sure that's what she really wants. But it sounds like you were the one that was uncomfortable.
She wanted no-strings sex. You didn't. Taking a stereotypical male's perspective, I'd put your offishness down to fear & lack of experience, not due to a concern for that girl as an individual which everyone is commending you for (regardless of how pure you felt your motives were)
Why? Because with experience you start to realise that it's wiser and less emotionally draining to simply not give a **** about girls you've just met.
(Original post by Playboy King)
You did the right thing, being mr nice guy and all that...but what has that got you? No poonntang pie
Seeing as it's your first time having contact of this nature with a girl it's understandable...the important thing is you learn from this mistake so that next time you do indeed tap that