[bigbabypop]

This is kind of embarrasing but when I used to have sex with my old girlfriend i liked to put my fingers up her bum, she enjoyed it and i liked it because it was kinda dirty.

Anyway, now I have a new girlfriend and after having sex a few times, I thought i'd try it, and she wasn't impressed to say the least. she stopped having sex with me and ever since it has been awkward between the two of us. What do you think I should do?

[Tazarkul]

Probably should have asked her first >.< just Explain it to her, who knows, maybe she will let you try it if you don't just pounce on her?

[ozzyoscy]

Talk to her...

[tigerbutterfly]

Just dont do it again! You prpbably should have gave her prior warning with a gentle rub to the area (cant believe what I'm saying...)
Make a joke of it??

[tomcuk123]

erm... I think you should try to Oxo cube her.
The oxo cube is LEGENDARY!!!!

[Tiina]

Tell her you thought she'd like it, don't mention the part about your ex

[Farmpants]

oh good lord dont mention that your ex liked it. she'd feel pressured then. just say youre sorry and that you shouldve asked first and you wont do it again if she doesnt want you to.

[rebeccaa]

rim her

[nnnomi]

ask her to reciprocate

[.Ella]

After having sex a FEW times. Jeez man, think yourself lucky she's still your gf (and didn't break your fingers) and start apologizing.

[Isis07]

Originally Posted by .Ella

After having sex a FEW times. Jeez man, think yourself lucky she's still your gf (and didn't break your fingers) and start apologizing.

Er why?

[Drunk Punx]

I think you should go the whole hog and shove your manhood in there. Then she'll be lucky that it was your fingers that you used the first time.

[xaheartdx]

Please please please don't tell her your ex enjoyed it, she will probably think that you are comparing her to your ex, and that's not good. Just say you wanted to experiment and your sorry. Tell her she can do it to you, so you can see how it feels lol.

[Baz1990]

just pretend it never happened.

[Blátönn]

Awesome. That's quite funny dude, almost as bad as 'oops, wrong hole. Sorry.'

[ozzyoscy]

Originally Posted by Anonymous

do it again. no means yes

Replying to your own thread pretending you're someone else is incredibly sad.

Could you not just say 'bump' like normal attention-whores?

[Lyndon1504]

You got balls for doign it without asking first, but that was a baddd move...
,, and your definitely not allowed to freak out if she tries it to you next time

[Mr_Spoof]

Lol classic.
If you say your ex liked it then your current gf will think she needs to work hard to match your ex.

She won't like it.
Just say a girl you used to **** a few years ago.

Oh and it's probably best to ask her first before doing that sort of thing. It was probably a bit of a shock.

Jeez you'd think some people would have more common sense.

Since when did you stick your finger up a person's orifice and not ask?

[VanillaCat]

Do NOT say "but my ex liked it". That's inhumane.

Just because she's your girlfriend doesn't make it okay to randomly stick your fingers here there and everywhere, without asking. Ew.

[ipulledhermione]

just say your ex enjoyed it and you assumed that this was some secret womens pleasure spot :P

that way you she'll just think you didnt know any better