Originally Posted by mikejpb
Very few martial arts will teach you how to fight. No one is teaching anyone to fight, only how to defend yourself and handle a situation where someone is trying to attack you. If you watch any martial arts demonstration it's not all Karate Kid style fights, more of a philosophical expression in defending yourself and your attacker from harm.
You claim that all you need is courage and self-esteem to fight a bully, but that's completely ridiculous. Courage alone is stupid in a heated situation and is often the reason people step into situations they cannot handle and end up hurt or worse. With real self-defence these situations wouldn't even happen.
Simply watching kids won't do anything either. We cannot watch them 24/7 and it would be unfair on them to do such a thing.
Quite simply the moves can be adapted into attacks.
However it's only those interested in it that will excel. And those looking for fights usually aren't interested in MA.
More general:
People who do MA don't tend to look for fights.
Example, I'm currently not doing ma but used to, went downstairs to complain about the noise at 4 am.
Got threatened.
I could've gotton annoyed and angry and started pushing the guy or hitting him.
I could've insulted him.
I just kept in a friendly none aggressive stance, smile on my face "I just want to get to sleep mate".
Now if he has followed through I can guess my reaction would've been something similar to this:
try to defend myself, land one hit and push away, go up to my flat and lock the door.
Call local police and let them deal with it.
But I just remained completely relaxed and nothing came of the threat.
In the street I've had people pushing me, I've had people shout at me.
I've never been outright attacked, just intimidated.
The thing is, whilst you can get aggressive back, you don't know their background, you don't know if they're carrying.
It's not worth it putting your life randomly on the line.
In fact the person I quoted "with real self defence these things won't even happen" or something like that. I'm guessing the same sort of thing.
If I were to get into a fight, I don't know if I could take whoever it is. I'd like to think I could, but I'd rather not find out.
I think general self defence classes are a good idea, but there need to be specifically approved sensei's.
Just to make sure there isn't some cowboy teaching BS.
I've seen some fairly retarded videos before, the most retarded was a kung fu one "over head knife attack".
Firstly these almost never happen.
"sink lower and put your arm up like so"
Well mate you're gonna have to have a very specific aim, otherwise that knifes going to keep going and you'll get it in the head.
What most MA's teach "knife comes in"
"GET THE **** OUT OF THE WAY"
Now it was just a video, not on the mat training, but someone was teaching that.
And before you ask why I was watching ma videos...broken collar bone.
I would also hope it'd be 2 ma's.
Judo, because there is often a lot of grappling involved in fights.
Something like jujitsu, because it deals weapons, wrist locks etc.
Aikido perhaps instead, although that's more based upon hips and wrists.
MMA-mixed martial arts.