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What's happened to you isn't the kind of thing to kill yourself over. I hope you're trolling, but if you're not then please, please go and see your GP and tell them this. You're obviously depressed and depression can make the smallest things seem like something so huge that death is the only option.
Perhaps if you spent more time working on ways on achieving your goals and less time feeling sorry for yourself you'd actually have the life you've always wanted.
And if things don't work out, that's life. You just pick yourself up and move on.
What's wrong with you? If they;re your reasons for considering suicide then you're pathetic. No empathy for people like you.
No, it's not pathetic. If it's depression (which it sounds like it could well be) then the OP can't help thinking like this. What they CAN do is go and speak to their doctor about it.
this is a bit different from the usual posts youre going to get -see a counsellor, grow up etcetc
but i applied for medicine at uni last year and ive wanted to do it for ages, and then i didnt work for my alevls and didnt get in. My fifth choice was optometry in london which i got an offer for but i also go an offer for molecular med from one of the unis i applied for medicine to. I felt like such a failure for ages and in the end i took the molecular med option
and now, 6 or so months on im so happy i did. i dont think i could have picked a better course/uni for myself and im the happiest ive been in ages. and i realised i didnt actually want to do medicine, it was just a childhood 'i want to be an astronaut' type thing. i didnt actually think about it so im really glad i didnt get into that too
so basically just take what life gives and make the most of it because you never knoe, you might actually love it
Perhaps if you spent more time working on ways on achieving your goals and less time feeling sorry for yourself you'd actually have the life you've always wanted.
And if things don't work out, that's life. You just pick yourself up and move on.
The reason i'm depressed in the first place isn't even my fault. I was so young at the time when people are meant to be happy with their friends and i got rejected by my friends in such a big way that it's just lead to this...
You try having developed no social skills what so ever that you can't even hold a conversation with someone without them walking away.
Everyone has those crappy years in life. Things do change you know, just wait for it it would come.
How old are you? If you're considering uni I don't think you're old enough to conclude that there was no point in being alive because you havn't even lived half of your maximum potential life you could live.
People WILL be really hurt and very upset if you commited suicide. They won't want you to. So don't.
The reason i'm depressed in the first place isn't even my fault. I was so young at the time when people are meant to be happy with their friends and i got rejected by my friends in such a big way that it's just lead to this...
You try having developed no social skills what so ever that you can't even hold a conversation with someone without them walking away.
I had exactly the same as this and yet I'm fine -I'm in uni, I have good friends, Good family and a good life.
Suicide is so selfish, think of all the people you would leave behind. You can't use depression as an excuse to end/give up on life. And don't say I don't know what it feels like, because I do.
Apart from the "go to therapy" balls that's allready been said, I'd say this was the best piece of advice I could give you if you're dead set on dying. Could always do some volunteer work as well.
There is a guy who claims that he is in Oxbridge on TSR but I know for a fact that he isn't. I wonder if it's the same guy that you refer to in your sig.
The reason i'm depressed in the first place isn't even my fault. I was so young at the time when people are meant to be happy with their friends and i got rejected by my friends in such a big way that it's just lead to this...
You try having developed no social skills what so ever that you can't even hold a conversation with someone without them walking away.
I was like that, too
I was so socially awkward at school that no wanted to hang around with me
But I matured, grew up. Life is awkward sometimes but you have to deal with it.
honey, you need some persepective. life is a gift, those are not reasons to waste it. get out there, get some help, and you'll see how much you have to give, and receive from the people around you. you've got so many great experiences to come - please, get help.
i do know what i'm talking about, because you probably think i don't. i have been there, i attempted suicide. it is so not worth the people you hurt, it is the ultimate selfish act. please, think again. x