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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 20:57 #1 
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so here's the thing. Im 17 and im the ONLY virgin in my "group" as it were. im seriously thinking bout just going out getting wasted and sleeping with some random
i know it sounds really stupid but i need some advice i dont know what to do.
help!!
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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 22:32 #2 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
DO NOT HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND!

You're only 17! Despite what you may have heard, you don't need to have sex to be accepted, and boys under the age of 20 have a tendancy to make it all a bit crap. Have your friends made you feel embarrassed about being a virgin?
If you do this, you'll regret it, trust me.
 
Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 22:34 #3 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
can you be sure you are the only virgin in your group? even if you are what does it matter
Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 22:35 #4 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Classy.
 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Giving in to peer pressure.
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Don't do it, don't be so silly.
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
You won't regret it, go for it.

There's nothing wrong with having a one night stand.
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
do it!
think about it, if you do it first with someone you 'love' it'll be crap for them, get good at it early and really make a woman love you!
 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Do it if you want. Just be responsible about it. If you're really mature enough to handle this, you'll make the decision based on your rational thoughts. And use protection.
 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Who's in your group, the neighbour's cat?
 
Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 22:41 #11 
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If you're fit.

PM me, I can provide a good service x
 
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Don't be so stupid!
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Don't cheapen yourself just to fit in. You'll regret it in the long run. And what will you achieve? "Yeah so I got drunk and slept with this guy who I never saw again." "Oh... cool?"
You'll get more respect for waiting until you're ready and you've found a guy you trust and like enough to lose it to. Anyway it's really not as big a deal as you think it is, or as your 'mates' believe. I bet their experiences aren't as great as they've made them out to be either.
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
you'd better lose your friends rather than your virginity. those are not real friends and you shouldn't waste your first time on a ons. then again, do whatever you feel like, but i would advise against it
 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Originally Posted by Adonis
If you're fit.

PM me, I can provide a good service x

OP didn't say if he/she was a boy/girl?

So you're bisexual if you're willing to accept any ?
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Originally Posted by BubblesMcGee
DO NOT HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND!

You're only 17! Despite what you may have heard, you don't need to have sex to be accepted, and boys under the age of 20 have a tendancy to make it all a bit crap. Have your friends made you feel embarrassed about being a virgin?
If you do this, you'll regret it, trust me.
Oh shut up....the girl I lost it to was a virgin and she has never regretted it, and I haven't either. Stop holding everyone to your own stupid moral standards.
 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
do it, it'll give you experience for when you meet the 'right one'.
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Originally Posted by humz2
OP didn't say if he/she was a boy/girl?

So you're bisexual if you're willing to accept any ?

oh ye

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if you are a girl or a very pretty boy

PM me x
 
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Default Re: Virgin thinking about one night stand
 
Im doing the same thing, in a few weeks.
You only live once and I really want it out of the way for when I actually get a boyfriend.
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TSR has warped views on virginity and one night stands.
If you really want to lose it, then go for it. I see no problem as long as you're sure you wont regret it.
 
 
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