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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 21:46 #1 
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his mate wants us to meet his new gf which is fair enough

the problem is though shes VERY flirty and i mean flirty to the point where it annoys even her own bf, last time she was on the phone she was proper flirting with my bf (he didnt flirt back) but she was making comments about my bfs cock size and how she 'bets hes well fit' and how she cant wait to 'get him to take his top off so she can check out his muscles' and apparently shes worse face to face as she will 'be all over him' IE sitting on his knee, cuddling up etc

now you all know how i feel about flirting in a relationship and while you agree with my opinions or not, thats not really the point of this topic

im really not looking forward to meeting her tbh and i can see it ending badly, ive already told my bf and his mate that shes not welcome in mine and my bfs house, you may think this is harsh/stupid but i could not have someone like that in my house so if we do meet them it will be a case of saying hello maybe a quick drink then thats it

anyone had experience with a flirty partner of a mate or a bfs mate? how did you deal with it?
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How can you make such harsh judgements on someone you've never even met! Get over yourself and give her a chance at least.
 
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wtf, you really do have relationship problems... first a whiney bf, then this... and all in one day?
 
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Originally Posted by balloon_parade
How can you make such harsh judgements on someone you've never even met! Get over yourself and give her a chance at least.

im just going on what her bfs told me and what ive witnessed with my own ears, bit hard not to judge someone who says that kind of stuff to my bf
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You have relationship problems big style. Sort them out, don't whinge about them to us. If your boyfriend loves you he'll just ignore her. Simples. Ok?
 
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Yeah I'd at least give her a chance.
 
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You post so much, you must have a lot of problems but must you spam us constantly.
 
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Originally Posted by tinktinktinkerbell
im just going on what her bfs told me and what ive witnessed with my own ears, bit hard not to judge someone who says that kind of stuff to my bf

Has he not got a mouth to tell her it's inappropriate and to back off? How old are you all?
 
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Default Re: bfs mates flirty gf
 
Originally Posted by balloon_parade
How can you make such harsh judgements on someone you've never even met! Get over yourself and give her a chance at least.

yeaah but tbh.. id be worried if this girl i would about to meet would be flirting with my boyfriend, seeing as she had on the phone. just abit i would go mentalllll if any girl flirted with my partner! and i totally understand that you dont want this girl in yours and your boyfriends house wooo.
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You have relationship problems big style. Sort them out, don't whinge about them to us. If your boyfriend loves you he'll just ignore her. Simples. Ok?

Mm-hm.
 
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Originally Posted by Katherineeee.
yeaah but tbh.. id be worried if this girl i would about to meet would be flirting with my boyfriend, seeing as she had on the phone. just abit i would go mentalllll if any girl flirted with my partner! and i totally understand that you dont want this girl in yours and your boyfriends house wooo.


pleased someone can see where im coming from lol
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You have relationship problems big style. Sort them out, don't whinge about them to us. If your boyfriend loves you he'll just ignore her. Simples. Ok?

This completely
 
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Originally Posted by Katherineeee.
yeaah but tbh.. id be worried if this girl i would about to meet would be flirting with my boyfriend, seeing as she had on the phone. just abit i would go mentalllll if any girl flirted with my partner! and i totally understand that you dont want this girl in yours and your boyfriends house wooo.

Why is your boyfriend's friend with her if she is SO bad. I don't even know why you are worried. If you are worried then you obviously don't trust your boyfriend.

But seriously, you do sound about 14.
 
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why dont you start flirting with her? that way she wont be all over your bf and im sure he wudn mind.
 
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Originally Posted by balloon_parade
Why is your boyfriend's friend with her if she is SO bad. I don't even know why you are worried. If you are worried then you obviously don't trust your boyfriend.

But seriously, you do sound about 14.

i dont actually have a boyfriend, i just didnt know how to word it. and i was looking at the person who posted this forum's point of view. does it really matter how old i am. and no, im not 14
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why dont you start flirting with her? that way she wont be all over your bf and im sure he wudn mind.
why would i want to flirt with the skank
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why would i want to flirt with the skank


For the lols?
 
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Default Re: bfs mates flirty gf
 
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why would i want to flirt with the skank


you're calling her a skank and you haven't even met ehr.

and you're supposed to be 28yr old virgin with a 40 yr old boyfriend. wow at your age would have thought you would be more mature.

if you spend 24/7 with him he might be happy to be flirted with.
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For the lols?

*lulz

but it would be hilarious if you did do that. i reckon it would teach her a lesson if she's ACTUALLY that annoying.
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couldnt i just beat her over the heat for the lulz lol

libtolu, damn right im going to call her a skank after what shes been saying lol
 
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