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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 7th November 2009 16:58 #81 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Some people (including me ) are just very secure without it. Also, some people actually need it - not because they're ugly but just because they have quite blotchy skin etc. Be glad you don't have that insecurity and/or don't need to wear it
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by Peanut42
If every man stared at you when you wore make-up perhaps you had too much on?

No. I meant that the difference between me and me-spruced-up is quite marked. It's a completely different experience going out one way or the other.
 

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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
I suppose it just makes people feel better about themselves.

The general pattern I've seen among my friends is the more insecure they are, the more make-up they wear, and the more regularly they top it up. I'm not mad about make-up (I wear a little bit to school, and more on nights out) but nevertheless when I'm not feeling as good about myself I always wear more.

It puts up a little bit of a barrier between you and everyone else, and can make you confident.... for a while. It's pretty easy to get into a vicious cycle, I think. That's how some girls ends up wearing tons of slap on their face every day and never taking it off.
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by Jelkin
Well I'm afraid that makes you a hypocrite then. You can't complain about being judged as well as judging other people. You seem kind of mean to be honest. I only said it wasn't my priority to look my best because you seem to find it hard to understand why a girl "wouldn't want to" - makes me a bit sad that if you saw me walking down the street you'd think, "eurgh, why doesn't she wear makeup?"

I guess that I'd wear more makeup if I had more spots generally - if I have a week where my skin's looking bad I'm more likely to wear eye makeup to draw attention away from it. I wish people told me I looked the same with and without makeup - then I'd feel even better about not wearing it! Sadly people tend to tell me I look really different.


I wouldn't think someone looks ugly without makeup. I think it's mean that so many people feel it's okay to criticize people for wearing makeup. They think it is fine to think that someone must be extremely ugly to need to wear makeup all the time. They can't seem to understand that some people just like to wear makeup.
Also like I said before, I only judge them as I get judged first. I really don't give a damn what others wear on their faces, I only really said it to annoy those girls that don't wear makeup and think they are too pretty for it. Even the most beautiful people in the world wear makeup.
I would also like to point out that wearing makeup to cover spots is silly. Most of the time makeup only draws more attention to the bad skin than away from it. If I ever have a spot, I tend to wear as less makeup as possible. Nothing too extravagant as I don't want people to stare right at my face
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Because I want to. I much prefer to wear it, though I am not paranoid about going without. It takes me about five minutes to put on and the same to remove.
I usually only wear a little concealer and powder, mascara, eyeliner, blusher and lip balm. It doesn't make me look like a different person or anything.
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Well, if you look better with makeup, obviously you're always going to look worse, or "drab" without it, by comparison. Should you never wear nice clothes because you'll always look worse when you're not wearing them?

And no, it doesn't "ruin your skin" or "make you look older" or any other old wives tales.
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
I wear make up pretty much every day, but I still go for a natural look. I wear concealer, foundation, powder, blusher, mascara and eyeliner but it doesn't look like I'm caked in make-up. I just do it to enhance any features and make myself look better. Makes me feel better about myself!

Takes me about 5 minutes to put on and less than a minute to take off?
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by Leanne Antonia
I wear make up pretty much every day, but I still go for a natural look. I wear concealer, foundation, powder, blusher, mascara and eyeliner but it doesn't look like I'm caked in make-up. I just do it to enhance any features and make myself look better. Makes me feel better about myself!

Takes me about 5 minutes to put on and less than a minute to take off?

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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
I know I wear make up because it makes me feel better about myself, and comes in handy for those 7am starts...though red eyes probably give it away, if I've been particularly bad
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
i enjoy putting make up on...and collecting for some reason. i dont wear alot most of the time... just concealer and mascara. I do have dark cirlcles that i cant get rid of so concealer is my only option. I am lucky to have smooth skin, so i dont wear foundation all the time.

it only takes me 5 to 10 mins in the morning, and taking it off is like a routine like washing your face and brushing your teeth before getting in bed ... only takes a couple of minutes.

i can go without it, but it makes me feel more confident, and i look better with makeup on than without. I look tired without any makeup. On the weekends i dont wear any at all, just walk around with layers of moisteriser on my face. i do like having a clean face with nothing on... but i guess im not confident enough... even though i love the natural look.
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by python38


I never thought of that reason to wear make-up before. -surprised-

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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by issih
I literally can't leave the house without putting on make-up... I wish I could be like some of my friends who only wear it occasionally!!
I don't know... I kinda have bad self esteem issues and it's one of those things that makes me feel so much better, like doing my hair.
Also, because no one ever see's me not wearing make-up they are always really shocked when they see me for the first time without it on like if they sleep over my house or something. I think I'm addicted lol. People always tell me I look nice without make-up, especially my dad but I can't believe them!! I don't know why... I always think they are just trying to make me feel better about myself.
Loll I also loove putting on make-up, it's not a chore for me it's really fun ahaha so it's not like I can ever not be bothered, I wake up so I have enough time to do it (like 20mins- 1hr) and taking it off takes like 5 mins. I hate looking in the mirror when I have no make-up on and then when I do it's like ahh such a relief!! I can face the world now!!
I should try not wearing it... I don't understand what I'm so scared of... I just think that people will see how ugly I am and not want to speak to me lol. I want to face people looking as perfect as possible because I'm so unperfect you know??
Are you the girl on the left of the pic?
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by Hachi
Are you the girl on the left of the pic?
the one wearing loads of makeup... lol. left. why?
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by issih
the one wearing loads of makeup... lol. left. why?
Cos you seem to wear loads of eye makeup like I do (i don't mean that in a bad way or anything) I think thats makes a difference cos it becomes like part of your 'look'. It makes you feel really different and underdressed without it i find.
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by Hachi
Cos you seem to wear loads of eye makeup like I do (i don't mean that in a bad way or anything) I think thats makes a difference cos it becomes like part of your 'look'. It makes you feel really different and underdressed without it i find.
yeeh i get what u mean absolutely!! without the dyed hair and makeup i wouldnt look like me, i would look boring hehe.
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
I think the point is that you either wear it all the time or don't wear it at all. I know lots of people who get so used to wearing it that they feel 'bare' without and really self-conscious. I guess if someone's seen you at your best (i.e. with makeup) you don't really want to go out in front of them looking really bad.

I sometimes go through spates of wearing lots all the time and then being lazy again for months.
 
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Originally Posted by issih
yeeh i get what u mean absolutely!! without the dyed hair and makeup i wouldnt look like me, i would look boring hehe.
precisely! If I went back to having mousy blonde hair and a bare face I wouldn't feel or look like myself
 
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I feel really self concious when I havent got makeup on, with some people like close friends or guys friends etc i dont mind wearing no makeup but to an event or something i like to wear it, i always wear some tinted moisturiser to school and some bronzer

when i dont i really dont feel comfortable
 
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Default Re: Why do some people wear make-up most of the time?
 
Originally Posted by python38
Out of curiosity: why do people go to the lengths of putting on make-up almost all the time? I thought pretty much everyone only wore it rarely, but (well, from reading here, anyway) it seems that that isn't the case.

I mean, obviously it can really improve one's appearance, but doesn't one's "real" face start to look very drab in comparison? I thought it made one look older faster, too?

Also, how do people manage to spare the time not only to put it on, but also take it off? It just seems to be so much of a hassle (please correct me if I'm wrong.)

Granted, I'm not very good with cosmetics so maybe that's why I don't understand, but someone professional once did my make-up, and, though I looked quite nice, it still felt really fake - like wearing a mask .

Thoughts?

(I only ever use sunscreen/moisturiser and lip balm, because I personally prefer being natural, but am I missing out on something really good here? Thanks! )
I don't think my 'real face' looks drab in comparison to my made-up face, but the reality is that I do have a problem with blemishes, and the texture is very uneven. As strange as it sounds, I don't mind going unmade up around my fiancé and close family, as I know 100% that they don't make judgements about how my skin looks when it isn't made up, but I would never go unmade up to work, as I just think my skin looks better, nicer and more professional when I put in more of an effort. Another reason to go unmade up around my fiancé and family is because I know it's important to have a few 'naked face' days a week if I want my skin to get better, as it's probably good to let the skin breathe a bit (it is getting better, but slowly).

I don't find it takes me very long to put makeup on (I tend to do it in the metro on my way to work anyway, so it's not like getting up half an hour earlier just to do it) and it's even quicker to remove. You can often even remove it just with a normal cleanser if you don't feel like using a separate makeup remover.
I also agree with whoever it was who said that it doesn't feel like a chore to apply it; I'm interested in makeup and have fun applying it, choosing colours etc. Overall I'd say that I wear makeup not just to make me look better but also because it's fun and I like to make an effort too.

Heavy foundations may feel a bit mask-like, but they shouldn't usually - if something feels heavy or fake then it's probably of quite low quality.

Originally Posted by python38
I thought make-up (at least, foundation/blush/etc.) generally made one's skin look worse (or is that only if you do it badly?) That is, when you see pictures of celebrities without makeup, they often have very bad skin, and I suppose they'd wear a lot of makeup regularly.
Yep, that's definitely only if you do it badly!
If people have bad skin, it's more likely to be because they don't remove their makeup properly each night, rather than because of the makeup itself. Or else they're just like me, whereby the bad skin barely seems to improve no matter what they do.

Originally Posted by Sequin
Yeah that is true, but its a vicious cycle. You have bad skin, so you use makeup to cover it, which in turn makes your skin worse, so you have even more need for it.
Please see the above. It's a complete myth that wearing makeup makes your skin worse.

Originally Posted by python38
I don't really see why most people would need it (unless you're a model or something.)
TO COVER UP SPOTS. Sorry to shout, but I'd have thought that this much was obvious.

Originally Posted by chronic_fatigue
but wearing it often makes your skin age prematurley
Evidence?

Originally Posted by Loz17
I am insecure about how pale I look without black eyeliner on,
Surely the contrast of black eyeliner against pale skin just makes you look MORE pale?

Originally Posted by ~emy~
I would also like to point out that wearing makeup to cover spots is silly. Most of the time makeup only draws more attention to the bad skin than away from it.
Not if done properly.

Originally Posted by legendstar
cuz they look ugly really. and then they take the mick out of people who they think are ugly, which in fact is them cuz they're the ones with the fake face.
What a ridiculous thing to say. I was bullied at school and so would never make fun of anyone (especially over something as trivial as whether or not they wear makeup), as I know how awful it feels.

Originally Posted by tinywings

And no, it doesn't "ruin your skin" or "make you look older" or any other old wives tales.
Finally someone is talking sense...
 
 
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