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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 7th November 2009 14:14 #1 
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Default Apparently im a cheat?
 
So last night i was accused by my g/f of 6 months of cheating on her with a girl i havent seen this year.

Im quite upset about this. I dont want to lose her but i cant understand how shes come to this conclusion.

What ever shall i do?
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Talk to her and ask her why she thinks you're cheating.
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Default Re: Apparently im a cheat?
 
tell her the truth. say its genuin, and if she still doesnt believe you, then i would say dump that b!tc$ cuz love is about trust. and if she doesnt believe you, then whats the use
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Sounds like she cheated on you.
 
Old 2 Weeks Ago: 7th November 2009 15:31 #5 
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Default Re: Apparently im a cheat?
 
Ask her what evidence/reasons she has to think this, and as she gives them, knock them back one by one then tell her that you wouldn't cheat on her and you like/love her and you're upset that she would think that.
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Default Re: Apparently im a cheat?
 
Originally Posted by fox_the_fix
Sounds like she cheated on you.

This happened to my friend.
Could have. Just don't be too accusative if you bring it up.
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I'll agree with that. If I've cheated, I get insanely paranoid they've cheated on me too.
 
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Dumb the biatch.
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Did you do it?
 
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Did you do it?
id imagine it would be pretty hard to do it when theyve said he hasnt seen her for a year
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Originally Posted by tom//
id imagine it would be pretty hard to do it when theyve said he hasnt seen her for a year

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ask her why she thinks that
 
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Default Re: Apparently im a cheat?
 
If you're actually cheating, stop it.

If you're not, prove it to her. Go to her, however difficult it is, and show how much you care. If you do everything you can to convince her and she still doesn't believe you she's not the girl for you,.
 
 
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