[wrooru]

since I've been going clubbing, I have had several opportunities to dance with girls or at least we both face each other and dance together (like feed off each others' vibes). I've realised I am really really poor at this. This will normally happen in a crowd of people so people will be partly watching me while they are dancing. Even if I am slightly drunk, I just can't dance with her in a good way. If my dancing skills were good and I could dance the way she was hoping for, she would have a better opinion of me and more likely to get me with later in the night. Right now, I just dance in a group, moving side to side, and if a girl singles me out as wanting to dance with her, I shy away and I have not danced with any properly yet. I believe the first move towards pulling a girl is dancing with her and making her feel special, and then she has a good opinion of you.

All serious comments are welcome

[vilage_idoit]

Originally Posted by wrooru

since I've been going clubbing, I have had several opportunities to dance with girls or at least we both face each other and dance together (like feed off each others' vibes). I've realised I am really really poor at this. This will normally happen in a crowd of people so people will be partly watching me while they are dancing. Even if I am slightly drunk, I just can't dance with her in a good way. If my dancing skills were good and I could dance the way she was hoping for, she would have a better opinion of me and more likely to get me with later in the night. Right now, I just dance in a group, moving side to side, and if a girl singles me out as wanting to dance with her, I shy away and I have not danced with any properly yet. I believe the first move towards pulling a girl is dancing with her and making her feel special, and then she has a good opinion of you.

All serious comments are welcome

Get wasted then you're either:

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  The best dancer in the world

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  Or still a bad dancer but you're too drunk to care!

[n0c0ntr0l]

Erm, try salsa. It's sooooo easy, just throw in spins and stuff, make her do all the work. Girls love a dominant man!

[wrooru]

Anymore comments?

[Dave Singleton]

I'm afraid the best advice really is... get more drunk! Dancing is all about confidence - a bit of dutch courage will give you the confidence to dance more openly, which generally converts to better dancing. You'll learn after a while the level of drunkeness that you need to be at to dance "well" - too little and you'll be self-conscious; too much and you'll err.. lurch as opposed to dance!

[a_t]

Either way dancing has little to do with attracting the opposite sex so get over it

[omlette]

It doesn't really matter what dance moves you do, so long as you don't do them awkwardly. A few tongue in cheek "big fish little fish"-es done confidently is better than being embarrassed about it.