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Old 1 Week Ago: 8th November 2009 01:10 #1 
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right, first of all anon or delete mods.

basically there is this girl at my college (we are both in y13) we were in the same class last year and the same again this year, we are good friends, quite close etc, but i like her more than that, she has been flirty, or at least i think she has :s . The problem is she has a BF, he is 21, but they had an argument recently, still together AFAIK, but i don't want not to act and regret it, or act and then it goes horribly wrong. as i (opefully) go off to uni next year and she isn't planning to, so i dont want to miss my chance. Thanks TSR!
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If she has a bf, don't go there. I've argued with my boyfriend loads and been with him for 2 years, one argument doesn't mean she's available or will soon become single.
 
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If she has a boyfriend at the moment its not worth going for and making it harder for her, if it is possible wait till she is single and then go down that road. but at the moment you dont want to complicate it more then it already is with her and her boyfriend. Relationships have lots of ups and downs, this may just be one of the downs.
 
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If she has a bf, don't go there. I've argued with my boyfriend loads and been with him for 2 years, one argument doesn't mean she's available or will soon become single.

even if she is flirty towards me?
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please just leave her alone she has a bf. Don't "test" her relationship. How would you like it if you were in the bf position? Knowing some guy is writing about getting with his girl on TSR.

Btw some girl's aren't aware they are flirting, don't mistake her kindness as flirting.
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Don't do it unless she's single.
 
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i know the general consensus is not to, but are there any more views? As you may have guessed i really like her
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even if she is flirty towards me?

Yeah because a girl being flirty towards you definitely means she wants to go out with you. Totally not her wanting something from you. Girls arent like that.
 
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Yeah, she's taken dude. You can look but not touch.
 
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She has broken up with her bf, about a week ago, so is it too soon to ask her out, will catching her on the re-bound be awkward? she dumped him btw. If you think its a good idea, please give me some ideas as i'm quite shy when it comes to this sort of thing. Thanks
 
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