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Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?Hi
Why do women never show interest in me. I'm sick of hearing, oh it'll eventually happen. It didn't happen at 10,11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18 etc etc so why on earth will it eventually happen?
I feel invisible to women. They walk past me and ignore me everywhere i go. Its really not doing good for my self-esteem / confidence. I just feel invisible.
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?Because you are ugly/boring/depressing and have no charm/charisma/confidence.
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People who tell you that it'll happen when the "time is right" are liars. Girls rarely come to boys, that's reserved only for the lucky few. You have to go out, and make them notice you.
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?I am not going to get into such a pathetic argument, suffice to say my love life is just fine thanks very much.(Original post by CHRIS_PARTLOW)
LOLOLOL
Top advice if you never plan on having sex for the rest of your life. -
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?Maybe so, but it gets more girlfriends, and not just friends who are girls.(Original post by bennh)
And that's top advice if you plan on being an insensitive jerk
And anyway, there did he say you have to be insensitive about it? -
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?It's all about the confidence. Anyway, they don't ignore you but everyone knows that guys have to approach girls!! With your mates act like a dick and show you're confident and funny and you will catch girls attention.
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?Anyone who describes their love life as "fine" is lacking something.(Original post by RightSaidJames)
I am not going to get into such a pathetic argument, suffice to say my love life is just fine thanks very much.
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?No no, I'm not even attracted to women and I know that they don't usually want a guy on the forehead of whom you can read "sexsexsexsexsexnownownow".(Original post by calvinuk)
Maybe so, but it gets more girlfriends, and not just friends who are girls.
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?aw dude
just be yourself, and it'll happen. confidence and genuine personality is what people look for.
trust me, i know exactly how you feel with the 'itll happen'. but it will, you just have to wait, frustrating as that is
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?Who said anything about being so forward as to make their intentions as clear as that?(Original post by bennh)
No no, I'm not even attracted to women and I know that they don't usually want a guy on the forehead of whom you can read "sexsexsexsexsexnownownow".
Girls LOVE, and I mean LOVE being given attention as though they were a potential mate.
But as you say, you're not attracted to women, therefore your views on the "art of attracting women" are moot, as your views are formed anecdotally and not through experience. -
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?I was just being modest, there's no way I'm going to boast on a forum because by doing so I'd be missing the point entirely.(Original post by calvinuk)
Anyone who describes their love life as "fine" is lacking something.
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?This - i used to feel like that OP - girls aren't scary, most of them (in my experience - limited tho it may be) are easy to talk to(Original post by RightSaidJames)
You need to treat women as people; think of them as your friends, not potential girlfriends. More will come later, but only when the time is right.
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Re: Lonely - Why do women never show interest in me?Some do, some don't. The ones I want to go out with are the ones who will like me as a person first.(Original post by calvinuk)
Who said anything about being so forward as to make their intentions as clear as that?
Girls LOVE, and I mean LOVE being given attention as though they were a potential mate.
But as you say, you're not attracted to women, therefore your views on the "art of attracting women" are moot, as your views are formed anecdotally and not through experience.
