boyfriend watches porn...makes me feel ugly...is this wierd?

Thanks so much. This is really helpful. I know, the thing I worry about is (as another petite brunette) he is into massive breasted blondes an anal and all that!! I don't think boys would ever understand how girls felt about it, unfortunately there arent a tenth as many websites out there full of naked men doing everything under the sun. Only then would they have any idea i think. Oh well. I guess forgetting about it is the best way forward

Yeahh same. I have asked my bf outright how he feels about my boobs and anal though and he said he loves my body as it is and he's not into anal at al (even though I know he's looked at it abit on the internet).
I definitely believe him, (I asked him when he was completely drunk as well as he always tells the truth then haha and he said the same).

I think porns a way of looking at stuff you wouldn't necessarily try yourself as well. So don't think he expects you to live up to all the crazy stuff on the internet.

Definitely just forget about it and see porn as something completelyyyyy separate to you're boyfriends real sex life

I felt like this when I found out my boyfriend was watching porn, they just don't understand why some of us have a problem with it!
They say "I'm not comparing you to them" bla bla bla. I don't give a crap! Why do you need to watch plastic bimbo's getting ******?!
Everyone says "that's just what guys do"
Ummm... that's no excuse! I'm not saying that I think porn is wrong, I just think that guys should be more sensitive to how we feel about this, not just completely jump down our throats. Maybe we'd be more cool about it if they didn't tell us that we're being pathetic and stupid and considered our point of view.

Posting as anonymous cos I posted something similar to this before and got SOOO much stick for it!

Oops just gave away my identity. Ahh well I don't really care. Just please don't start having a go at me people I'm not saying that porn is horrible! I'm just saying please please be a bit nicer to your partners when they find out! x

Insecurity.

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How do you think we feel with your posters of Johnny Depp and swooning over that Twilight gay icon?

I agree.

I hate girls like this. What's wrong with your bf finding other women attractive or watching porn? The point is, he ALSO finds you attractive, and since you must have a rad personality - he's WITH you.

It's like men being given a punnet of strawberries: you can't just say to someone, oh take one - there's only one good strawberry. There are many good stawberries, couple of duds

It doesn't make you ugly at all!! There's nothing like comparing when guys are watching them. That's simply for fun. If you say normal sex is a meal, then porns are no more than the desserts between meals... It's totally another matter.

I guess you're right. But wouldn't it hurt your feelings if you were crazy over your girlfriend and you knew whenever you weren't around she'd just be as happy 'gasming over someone else? I think it's just something girls won't understand, and boys won't ever be able to empathize with how they feel.

Hey, basically I found out my boyfriend watches porn (like most men on the planet) I know this is normal and everything so I don't have a major problem with it. The only problem I have is that I feel like I must be so much uglier than these people in it, and just generally inadquate because real sex and real women isn't what porn is about. Any girls cheer me up on this? Or boys who have girlfriends who watch porn and can tell me that it doesnt make their girlfriends seem uglier? I don't think I'm ugly, and never have. It just makes me feel like my boyfriend doesn't think I'm good enough when he can compare me to all these perfect looking women on the internet?

I am a girl

A straight one, and I think you're being paranoid and need to get over yourself. I feel a bit sorry for your boyfriend, his lack for freedom you're giving him is unfair.