is anyone still interested in love

Oh jeez, get over yourselves. There are plenty of guys like that, far far more than there are the type to use you for one night and that's it. Comments like this reflect more the fact you can't be bothered to find them yourself rather than there not being any.

that's because there aren't many around that are young betweeen 18 to 21 they want to have fun at uni. the only ones that are tend to be the ones who already are in a relationship or finished uni and want to a ltr

Out of all the people I know at university, not one of the wants to simply "have fun" (ie sleep around). Maybe I hang out with the right people? But I know the majority of people and not one of them would I put in that kind of category...

I think you need to start by changing your perceptions of:
a) There are no guys like that
b) I need to wait until a guy initiates it

Both perceptions, a and b, **** me off big time

i never said no guy is like that, i said many want to have a good time. and a lot already have partners, but it doesn't stop them from cheating.

No, of course it doesn't. But, guys can have a good time other than sleeping around... I don't understand why you seem to have such a negative view on this. It doesn't stop them from cheating, but boy, they'd be utter tossers if they did, and why the **** would you want to be with them in the first place? I just think you need to hang around the right people... I doubt going to nightclubs or anything will help you find what you're after, for example. Try other, quieter places, where you can initiate conversation, ask to go for a drink, and build up from there. It's not hard - once you make a bit of effort, then I'd be surprised if it didn't come naturally from there


Well **** what we used to do, we don't live in the Victorian era anymore do we? Girls' signals are just as complicated to guys as guys' are to girls! Whatever you feel and/or face, we also feel and/or face too. We are human, even if that may not sometimes appear to be so


Yes some still think that, but when you say some, that is probably about 1%. It might even be that you like them, but they have no clue, and so you perceive them as being cruel but in reality, they have no idea whatsoever! If a guy likes you then yes, they should tell you; but there is absolutely no reason for it not to be the same vice versa - heck, if it was, your life would be much easier... perhaps try it...

i knew you were going to say something like that but i don't see all females in the workplace being paid equally as men in certain jobs.

Oh jeez, get over yourselves. There are plenty of guys like that, far far more than there are the type to use you for one night and that's it. Comments like this reflect more the fact you can't be bothered to find them yourself rather than there not being any.

Stereotyping much?
I don't think they are desperate, I don't see why it matters in any way. I think this is the type of perception that comes from "The Inbetweeners" for example; it's not really true.

For some people making a big deal about losing your virginity is just a facade for a deeper desire for companionship. That's what it was for me anyway.

No you don't, and I don't agree with that, and I doubt many people do!
That's another discussion though


Haha, that's not true
We do notice, but we don't necessarily have a reason to talk to you? Same thing goes for girls (funnily enough ); simply because you see someone, it doesn't mean you are going/have to talk to them. If you want to talk to them, then why not start a conversation?


Maybe, we all long for friendship and relationships


Stereotyping much?
I don't think they are desperate, I don't see why it matters in any way. I think this is the type of perception that comes from "The Inbetweeners" for example; it's not really true.


And so do us guys, I mean, look at the conversation we've had in this thread
That's not a result of me desiring sex and only sex... and there are a whole lot of guys who say exactly the same thing as me time and time again in H&R. People are more open about feelings online because they can hide behind the internet, plenty of guys (the majority) will agree with everything I've said here, they just don't necessarily want to/have to show it

i just like arguing with you i wouldn't expect you to talk about sex anyway unless we were on a forum about sex
why do guys feel that they can be different online than in real life.

Oh jeez, get over yourselves. There are plenty of guys like that, far far more than there are the type to use you for one night and that's it. Comments like this reflect more the fact you can't be bothered to find them yourself rather than there not being any.