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    I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
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    No, shut his ass down
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    Yeh. Its normal. Whats wrong with looking at porn?

    Loads of people do it married or with gf or without. Maybe ur bf likes to look at other women
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    They're probably from before you got together, maybe ask him about it but don't go assuming he's up to no good. I don't go through my folders at all so still have pictures of me and exes from 2+ years ago.
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    If it's just porn from the web, you'll probably find a lot of guys will have that.

    If it's someone he actually knows, then that's the only time it would be concerning. He may well have had them since before you got together though.
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    yeah.
    its normal for them
    just ignore it
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    i imagine its just porn from the web, doubt many guys delete all their porn every time they get into a relationship.

    although if its pictures of a girl that he actually talks to on the web etc, then well thats really quite wrong
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
    :lolwut:

    If you right click and check the properties of the picture, you can sometimes find out when the file was saved or created. If it was before you met, then don't worry about it. If it's recent, then maybe just ask him. 'Darling, who is this topless hoe on your laptop? kthx.'

    EDIT: You said you know it's someone he knows from the internet, so can't be porn. Plus it's easy to differentiate between porn and an amateur shot by a girl. Check the properties or just ask. Sounds a bit suspicious to me...
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    I have some semi clothed pictures of my ex still. They are just in a folder with all the pics i have of her. Remember checking a while ago for a similar thread and the last time it was opened was Febuary, 2 months before we broke up.....
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    (Original post by sylv)
    If you right click and check the properties of the picture, you can sometimes find out when the file was saved or created.
    This is good as a cue but bear in mind that it's not infallible. If something has been restored from a backup or whatever the date may not be accurate.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
    do you have naked pictures of boys? :curious:
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    (Original post by RadioElectric)
    This is good as a cue but bear in mind that it's not infallible. If something has been restored from a backup or whatever the date may not be accurate.
    Sure, that's a good point.

    OP, I'd suggest you go ahead and ask him. I don't think it's porn. And unless he's a great liar, you'll be able to tell if he's being honest when you just ask him straight up. Don't ask him in a really threatening or argumentative way though.
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    i would dump my bf for that, especially if he got them AFTER we got together
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    and don't ask him on msn, FB or by text.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was round my boyfriends today and found some pictures on his pc of a girl naked and a picture of her clothed. I know its someone he knows from the internet but i dont know what to do about the situation. Is it normal for males to have pictures of other girls when they have a girlfriend or is it wrong?
    If you were snooping there is nothing you can do, you shouldn't do that anyway. If you say something, you're going to come across as the bad guy because you went behind his back. Best thing is to wait until he mentions something, or "accidentally" find them in front of him then confront him. Ask him to delete them and explain why "makes you feel less special..." etc. I made my boyfriend delete some pictures he had and he did it so it shouldn't be a big deal.
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    I think he's chatting with other girls online and they have been exchanging "pics". So she could have copies of him. I'll definitely confront him about it.

    or

    you could do more digging...
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    This sounds oddly familiar :shifty:
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    I really don't think you should worry.

    I have pictures of old bfs on my comp, I never look at them but they are still there I just haven't got round to deleting them.
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    Nah my boyfriend has tons on his phone and psp.. I recommended him half of them haha. It's nothing to worry about honestly.
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    I agree that you should find out how recent they are, and then confront him about it. Don't stand for that **** :no:

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