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he love sex ...and unfaithful

my boyfriend is unfaithful to me,he always go to the sex related website and downloads many naked girl's picture ,at the beginning,I told him no,he said ok,but I still find him collecting these pictures,and I am so disappoited and he said every man does that.
is that right,I hate him and I do not want to have sex with him anymore.

anyone,please help me,tell me what I should do///

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Reply 1

LPK

upset girl

afraid so

Reply 2

nikk

upset girl

No they don't

Reply 3

gemgems89

upset girl

He's not exactly unfaithful, but I can easily understand why you're upset.
If he still does it when you told him not to then he's betraying you.

Reply 4

DevilsDoor

upset girl

Why does it upset you so much? if you are both secure in your relationship, naked pictures wouldnt make any difference, providing you love and trust each other, you have the basics for a great relationship, although it is about give and take and if you are unhappy with the situation, your partner should show some respect for your feelings also

Reply 5

upset girl

DevilsDoor

yes,you are right.,that is why he lies to me...I can not believe why he interested in these,and he is a good bf in all way expect this.........I hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Reply 6

Michael Beaver

Men are naturally a bit pervy like that but we dont all look at porn - or at least I dont. Every man might instinctively want to but I think most people have the self control not to bother. Afterall its a bit sad I think.

Reply 7

theone

No not all men do that. I think it does show infidelity on his part and the fact that he's not content with the relationship. Anyway, I imagine you're better than him anyway, so you've got nothing to worry about.

Reply 8

upset girl

theone

yes,he is not handsome and my friends ask me to leave him as I am better than him,but I do not ,because we have been together for 3 years,and he is a good guy in all the other aspects.I feel sorry if I leave him for this reason,could anyone tell me what I should do to help him out of that.....
he said he is just collecting ,nothing else///

:-(

Reply 9

upset girl

I slamped him ,and threw something towards his face,he asked me to leave his room straight away,I did not,instead I was crying,eventually,he got his key and left....
I will not call him,am I wrong???

Reply 10

Michael Beaver

upset girl

Just dump him he sounds like a loser. Or if what I have written offends you then obviously you care about him. In that case maybe you should consider why.

Reply 11

theone

upset girl

He doesn't seem like a nice guy - 'collecting' my arse.

Reply 12

upset girl

Michael Beaver

Just dump him he sounds like a loser. Or if what I have written offends you then obviously you care about him. In that case maybe you should consider why.

I slamped him ,and threw something towards his face,he asked me to leave his room straight away,I did not,instead I was crying,eventually,he got his key and left....
I will not call him,am I wrong???

Reply 13

tommypip

upset girl

I slamped him ,and threw something towards his face,he asked me to leave his room straight away,I did not,instead I was crying,eventually,he got his key and left....
I will not call him,am I wrong???

Do you have posters of semi naked men on your wall at home? Any difference?

Reply 14

upset girl

tommypip

Do you have posters of semi naked men on your wall at home? Any difference?

no,I do not,but I am trying to have some now,so that he will feel what I felt.....

Reply 15

chocolotte

well i dont think that there is n e thing wrong with that because really if you think about it, mayb there r not naked, but i bet you have pictures of famous men or boys u think r fit stuck round ure room or on ure diary or wherever he's basically jst doin that ,ok a bit exageratedly but i dont think there is n e reason for hating him JUST because he lyks a few pictures!!!!!!!!!

Reply 16

prince_capri

upset girl

no,I do not,but I am trying to have some now,so that he will feel what I felt.....

i personally believe that retaliation is not a good method for this !!!
Bettr u try to speak to him..and if he does not understand...u have only one choice left !!!

Reply 17

feebs

prince_capri

i personally believe that retaliation is not a good method for this !!!
Bettr u try to speak to him..and if he does not understand...u have only one choice left !!!

you should definately speak to him about it.
he isn't being unfaithful, there's not really anything wrong with him being interested in porn, but he shouldn't lie to you about it or try to hide it from you!
if you feel that strongly about it, maybe you should leave him.
looking at other people doesn't neccessarilly mean he wants you less....

Reply 18

Sire

upset girl

yes,you are right.,that is why he lies to me...I can not believe why he interested in these,and he is a good bf in all way expect this.........I hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just go online and look at the opposite of what he views. What is fair for one is fair for the other. Deleting his pictures and replacing them with your choices is another option.