(Original post by Anonymous)
It might not happen soon, but my advice would be work on yourself.
Hit the gym, get contact lenses or nicer glasses, switch up your style, take up a few new hobbies that are accessible to your everyday person who you could chat to about, maybe go out and see some countries, learn how to dance (which depends on which types of women you want to date).
Ultimately, you'll lose it when you've achieved self improvement.
As for your attitude, well... you're a nice guy, but you need a bit more a killer instinct. If you watch lots of porn - stop for a bit, and instead aim on trying to vent that sexuality in finding a woman.
Disregard all that 'it'll happen one day', as that revolves around some notion of fate. You need to put yourself out there.
Move out. You wasted three years of the best socialising time in your life. Screw "saving for the future and a family". You won't get one unless you go out there, meet people and gain confidence from actually talking to people.
gosh you sound like my boyfriend.
he is such a popular and considerate guy, treats everyone really respectfully but still knows his own mind. Before he met me he had loads of female friends who only ever saw him as a friend and he got rejected a few times. I was his first kiss and everything and he is a handsome guy.
What I think is that it will happen for you, and you'll be so glad you waited. And at least, having waited, you will more than likely have a meaningful relationship
Its guys like you that in a few years girls will be gagging to settle down with
(Original post by L i b)
Every single day we get this . Every day. Do you know what it's doing to our mental health?
"Oh, I'm a virgin, nanananana; isn't my life so ?" Well, guess what: nobody gives a tinker's cuss. Hell, given my own teenage fumblings and dalliances with neurotic girls back in the day, I'm inclined to say you're the lucky ones. Now go and have a and quit your moaning.