I can't decide whether to do my abroad in Amsterdam or not and I need help!
I know it's an amazing opportunity to do a year in Amsterdam, but I'm just not looking forward to it. And I don't want to get there and find I don't enjoy it at all..
I'm spending the summer working for Disney World Orlando (which is something I've wanted to do my whole life and I'm so excited for) but this means there will be literally a few days between that ending, flying back to England and the Amsterdam term starting. And I don't want my time in Florida to be ruined by getting nervous and stressed about Amsterdam and the little time I have to get packed and over the jetlag and get into a new term in a different country straight away. And this June I'll be finishing my exams and going STRAIGHT to Florida, so I'm going to get no time at home with my family for literally a whole year (because apparently people stay in Amsterdam over Christmas) and I don't know if I'll be happy spending that long away from them.
And then, bad timing but I got together with my boyfriend a few months ago and we've got really close now and just said 'I love you' and it seems pretty perfect, and I can't see it ending anytime soon and I really really don't want it to, but I also can't deal with an overseas relationship (he's coming out to Florida, but with a full time job he's not going to be able to come to Amsterdam all the time). So if I was in England next year there's hope we could carry on normally.
And then the ONLY other girl I know going has just told me she's pulling out. I know I'll meet people there, but how many people will actually be English? I'm fine mixing with international people obviously, but it will be dreadful if I'm the only English person I know and everyone else just speaking English as a second language. I feel like I'll be the odd one out :/
And they've already warned us that the accommodation is horrible and yucky and doesnt get cleaned and you find tramps in your corridor. So I am not looking forward to that. Then there's the whole weed thing, because people that have been before say you can't avoid it, everyone does it. I've tried it, I don't mind it.. but I don't do it regularly and I don't want to be around people constantly doing it.
HOWEVER, on the other side of things.. if I don't go I have to sort out housing somehow back at uni because my housemates already have theirs sorted. I don't want to disappoint my family or anyone else that thinks I'm giving up an amazing opportunity. And it is an amazing opportunity and would look amazing on my CV, BUT so will Disney and with the money I save by not going I could go travelling and do something I KNOW I'm going to enjoy.
Well done if you've read this far.. I just needed a rant really. Any opinions or thoughts are very much welcome pleease!!
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