This girl at university had liked me for quite a while and i was aware of it but did not say anything. Just recently i found some texts on one of her friends phones regarding me. She now knows that i read those texts and she is acting like a bitch, also trying to ignore me, she has also brainwashed her friends so now whenever i ask them to come for a drink or something, they ask her(the girl in question) for permission. Is there any explanation for this retarded behaviour?
(Original post by Anonymous)
Only as a friend..the day she found out she was cool with it (so it seemed) couple of days later, she started acting up.
Oh, then she's p***** off with you and her friends are just trying to be supportive. I mean look at it from her perspective, you like this guy for ages and you think he kind of knows. Then he reads texts actually saying you like him and you get rejected...
Tbh you need to give this time, she's going to be a bitch to you until she gets over you and moves on.
Tbh, its not really bitchiness.. I think its just that this girl clearly likes you and is embarassed that you've read her private texts and rejected her...
I think you've gotta stop claiming she's a bitch and just have an honest talk with her about it... or at least wait until she's over it.
Better to wait, if you try and talk about this and you say she's been acting like a bitch she will get angry and it won't solve any problems, just give it awhile and let her calm down, she feels hurt about the situation and is just letting her feelings out in her own way and her friends just want to support her thats why there asking for permission as I wouldn't think that she is making them ask against there will as if she did they would lose any feelings of needing to help her.
after awhile try and ask her if you two can be friends and say how you feel about how you just want to be friends and didn't mean to hurt her, hopefully she will be calm and understanding to be ok with it.