Really upset, think I have been chucked out of uni,

I feel like they have messed me around.

Is there nobody on campus on Saturday you can go talk to? There is at my uni...

Anyway, don't go in all screamy. Try and approach them calmly and say there are things you need to discuss. then explain the situation and what you think has gone wrong, it could just be a case of miscommunication between lecturers and whoever else.

I f anything, you are messing up their administration because you couldn't be bothered to turn up for lectures for three weeks.

No, I was just throwing up from having a chest infection means I think its a bit hard to turn up for class when I cant eat or drink and can barely move doesnt it!

Not that I know of, really upset though as my course leader is very annoying, I remember on the first 2 weeks I arrived for most lectures about 5-15 minutes late (mainly as my timekeeping is bad due to having aspergers) and he wouldnt accept that though I was a hard worker that being late was anything but being lazy and lectured me on how he turns up for work on time every day(despite having a car!) and me having to do a 45 minute walk first thing in the morning in freezing rain.

From their port of view I understand it just looks like I have missed loads of classes but I dont think classes alone mean I am lazy, plus the fact I feel insulted because I am paying over £3000 a year to be there and they seem to be acting as if they can do what they want.

Edit: Why is it when someone has a problem they are a troll? cant they just assume someone is upset

Then why are they chasing you down with letters. A simple email/phone call to the faculty informing them of your 'terrible' illness would have covered those 'lost' weeks of your life.

Unless you just slept in for three weeks and bummed around...?

Not that I know of, really upset though as my course leader is very annoying, I remember on the first 2 weeks I arrived for most lectures about 5-15 minutes late (mainly as my timekeeping is bad due to having aspergers) and he wouldnt accept that though I was a hard worker that being late was anything but being lazy and lectured me on how he turns up for work on time every day(despite having a car!) and me having to do a 45 minute walk first thing in the morning in freezing rain.

From their port of view I understand it just looks like I have missed loads of classes but I dont think classes alone mean I am lazy, plus the fact I feel insulted because I am paying over £3000 a year to be there and they seem to be acting as if they can do what they want.

Edit: Why is it when someone has a problem they are a troll? cant they just assume someone is upset

my experience of people with aspergers is that they are so anxious and terrified of being late that they turn up insanely early.

I'm not stupid so of course I rang them up about the illness but my local campus is a bit non beliving of any illness, I was doing a college course here 6 years ago had a really bad stomach bug then and was in bed for a week and handed in a doctors note and was called into lecturers office and accused of being seen working in local supermarket one time and another in the cinema.

It seems theres no point discussing it with you though as it looks like you have made your mind up that I am lying.

I know how you feel, I live half an hour walk from uni in a shared house and it can be a real pain in bad weather!

It does sound as if there could have been some miscommunication though - if your lecturer was aware of your aspergers he would probably be more understanding so maybe he isnt aware of it? I know you dont get along, but it would be best to go and see him first thing on monday as it is him that is in charge of your place on the course. Even if he isn't free first thing, ask him when he is and just wait to see him, to show that you are serious about this.

Perhaps think over the weekend about what it is you think you need to tell him (about your illness etc), and any questions you want to ask, just so you have it all in your head for monday and will get a thorough explanation. If you feel you have been unfairly chucked out then you have to be able to communicate that to him clearly and calmly.

P.s. I have no idea why people cry troll on some things. They have nothing better to say?

Growing up is dealing with reality and mistakes we make; not running a mile and avoiding difficult situations with incessant lies and alibis.

I did tell the course leader about the aspergers and other stuff like dyspraxia when I started course and he was unsympathetic and just said "if its discovered you need help you will get it" and how he doesnt give people with disabilities any more chances than people without to be fair.

What are you saying there, I am confused and I am quite grown up since I am 26 years old.

This is what I was thinking when I wrote the first post, people are going to take a quick look at what I said and make judgements on it from what they think I said and what I havent said, as obviously I am not in the perfect frame of mind at the moment!

This will sound incredibly blunt, but you should probably take control over your various diabilities before enrolling on a university course. Once you have them in check, then you won't risk being thrown off a course.