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Brown discharge after being fingered

Hi, anon for obvious reasons!

I was just wondering if anyone could give me any advice on this. Basically, whenever my boyfriend fingers me, I get a brown discharge during being fingered and for about a day after. He is quite vigorous, and it hurts at times; once he made me bleed when he was doing it, but I think I may have been getting the brown discharge before this happened. I guess it is possible he could have cut me before this occassion, but this has been happening for a couple of months now probably, and it's starting to worry me. We tend to do things like this alot more often than we have sex, but yesterday we had sex and I didn't notice any brown discharge, so it is possibly from fingering only.

If anyone has any advice at all I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks :smile:
Reply 1
tell him to have smooth fingernails, it shouldnt hurt. He doesnt need to be so rough....
Anonymous
Hi, anon for obvious reasons!

I was just wondering if anyone could give me any advice on this. Basically, whenever my boyfriend fingers me, I get a brown discharge during being fingered and for about a day after. He is quite vigorous, and it hurts at times; once he made me bleed when he was doing it, but I think I may have been getting the brown discharge before this happened. I guess it is possible he could have cut me before this occassion, but this has been happening for a couple of months now probably, and it's starting to worry me. We tend to do things like this alot more often than we have sex, but yesterday we had sex and I didn't notice any brown discharge, so it is possibly from fingering only.

If anyone has any advice at all I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks :smile:


Sounds like he's replicating porn which he's seen which usually is rough and doesn't give the girl pleasure, it's all acting. Give him more guidance if he's being too vigorous, he's fingering you for your pleasure so tell/show him what works best for you.
I can't believe he could be that rough with his fingers. As I understand it, you're supposed to be slow and take-your-time kinda thing .. or is that how I like it :biggrin:
I cant belive I just got a semi :lolwut:


:getmecoat: Ill go now...
Reply 5
GottaLovePhysics! :)
I cant belive I just got a semi :lolwut:


:getmecoat: Ill go now...

:lolwut: Sorry that was hilarious.

And op, sounds like he's cut you some how, and maybe you should tell him to calm it down?
Reply 6
I do tell him to calm down when it starts to hurt, sometimes I don't realise it's hurt me until afterwards, feels pretty damn good most of the time ^_^ hehe

I'm basically just worried about it and don't know what I should do, don't really want to go to the doctors about it. I will if I have to but most things I've read have just said it's old blood, but why is it still happening months down the line is what's confusing me?!?!
Everyone keeps commenting about the way he's fingering you.... but I'm going to comment on what you wanted! The brown discharge;-

I had the same problem a few years ago, and would only ever have it after my bf fingered me. I decided to stop him doing it and we waiting about 1 month until he did it again... but then I told him to be gentle and slow.... At the end of all that I've not hand any brown discharge since.
I've never known what it was... but I think it was probably skin cells mixed with my cum....In sex, the dick is nice and smooth so it doesn't cause fresh skin cells to rub away with cum, unlike fingering can.

Hope this helps =)
Reply 8
brionyequus
Everyone keeps commenting about the way he's fingering you.... but I'm going to comment on what you wanted! The brown discharge;-

I had the same problem a few years ago, and would only ever have it after my bf fingered me. I decided to stop him doing it and we waiting about 1 month until he did it again... but then I told him to be gentle and slow.... At the end of all that I've not hand any brown discharge since.
I've never known what it was... but I think it was probably skin cells mixed with my cum....In sex, the dick is nice and smooth so it doesn't cause fresh skin cells to rub away with cum, unlike fingering can.

Hope this helps =)


This is really helpful, thank you so much! I'll definitely follow your advice :smile:
GottaLovePhysics! :)
I cant belive I just got a semi :lolwut:


:getmecoat: Ill go now...


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
Original post by brionyequus
Everyone keeps commenting about the way he's fingering you.... but I'm going to comment on what you wanted! The brown discharge;-

I had the same problem a few years ago, and would only ever have it after my bf fingered me. I decided to stop him doing it and we waiting about 1 month until he did it again... but then I told him to be gentle and slow.... At the end of all that I've not hand any brown discharge since.
I've never known what it was... but I think it was probably skin cells mixed with my ***....In sex, the **** is nice and smooth so it doesn't cause fresh skin cells to rub away with ***, unlike fingering can.

Hope this helps =)


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