One of the biggest problems I see in dating today is that guys and girls get talking to each other, but are not honest about they want from each other.
I see this all the time in posts on TSR. I see posts like 'Does she like me?' or 'I talked to this guy, but dunno what he wants from me'.
Too many guys and girls meet each other and operate in what I call the Ambiguous Zone. This is where they're talking and spending time together, but haven't revealed their intentions. As a result, things are left ambiguous and either party is left confused about what the other wants. You get all this 'Is she/isn't she?' nonsense that drives people crazy.
The solution to this madness is to ALWAYS be direct, honest and upfront about your intentions and what kind of relationship you're looking for, RIGHT FROM THE START when you meet someone.
If you're looking for sex only, be honest about it and don't lead the other party on.
If you're potentially looking for a monogamous relationship, be honest about it and don't lead the other person on.
If you're looking for an open relationship so you can see other people, be honest about it and don't lead the other person on.
If you're looking for a platonic friend only, or just don't find the other person attractive, be honest about it and don't lead the other person on.
That way, if the other person is interested then great; if not you can go your separate ways without wasting each others' time and with your dignity intact.
I'm sure you get the idea. I had to write this post because one of the biggest and most common problems I see all the time is that guys and girls just aren't honest and upfront about their intentions. All the confusion and mess could be solved if people were just honest and real with each other.