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Coping with err...horniness.

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    Reading the thread about achieving sexual maturity and girls only achieving sexual maturity in their 30s has somewhat depressed me.

    I'm a 20 year old virgin (girl) but sometimes get really rather horny. Masturbating does little for me as I've never achieved an orgasm but I have this urge to have sex although in my head I know utterly I only want to have it if I find someone I really love.

    I often doubt I will find someone. I mean I think if I was going to I would have at least had SOME interest from guys, but nothing. Ever.

    If this is only going to get worse in the next 10 or so years then bl**dy hell. My friend told me that when she hit 20 all she could think about was babies etc and I'm beginning to have the same thing, despite having no interest whatsoever of having children until at least my mid 30s.

    I just can't imagine going on like this for the next 10+ years, so how do all you TSRers manage when the hormones won't stop telling you to have 50 children all at the same time?
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    see what your going through.
    Thats what guys go through since the age of like 15....
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a 20 year old virgin (girl) but sometimes get really rather horny. Masturbating does little for me as I've never achieved an orgasm but I have this urge to have sex although in my head I know utterly I only want to have it if I find someone I really love.
    I think i may have found the root of your problem

    But seriously, if you're horny and wanting sex.. why not go and get some? Problem solved.
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    (Original post by Reue)
    I think i may have found the root of your problem

    But seriously, if you're horny and wanting sex.. why not go and get some? Problem solved.
    Because it's that easy.
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    (Original post by ozzyoscy)
    Because it's that easy.
    Apologies, should have further highlighted:

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a 20 year old virgin (girl)
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    (Original post by Reue)
    Apologies, should have further highlighted:
    Insert poor attempt at wittiness here:

    (Original post by ozzyoscy)
    Because it's that easy.
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    Buy a vibrator?
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    If you can't achieve orgasm via masturbation, I doubt that you're going to through sex. Masturbate until you can get yourself off.
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    (Original post by TheCasual)
    Buy a vibrator?
    This. :yep:

    Also try porn.

    I was in a similar situation at that age.

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