Why is this happening?

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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    Why is this happening?
    Anonymous or delete.

    I really like this guy and we are trying to have sex but he can't get hard enough. The first time we tryed to have sex he was very drunk but the second time he was completely sober. I don't know why this is happening.

    Help!
  2. unprinted's Avatar
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    Re: Why is this happening?
    Drink explains the first time, embarrassment and nerves could well explain the second.

    Give it time, one will come along sooner or later. It's more likely to be sooner if you don't give him any grief (he will probably be feeling bad enough) and if you both enjoy doing stuff that doesn't involve him having an erection.

    If you can sleep together, many men wake with erections.
  3. littleblackdress's Avatar
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    Re: Why is this happening?
    Oral before hand often helps...
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