What you should do, is have a good think, and look online, for somewhere not too "in the spotlight" because theres still going to be everything you want, but without as much of the **** you dont.
I feel like abit of a snob to be going on about how **** these places are, but to be honest, you will have a great time im pretty sure, just people who have already done it, think no one ever should.
Once you have done it once or twice, try moving onto different things, my mates are onto about their 9th holiday in these locations, it saddens me.