how many one night stands is too many?
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?I'd make sure you're using protection with so many different people. But I wouldn't class it as slutty as you're not exactly having sex as much as any couple would; they would be doing it daily at least compared to your 5 times is nothing.(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 18 and have had 5 one night stands, but have never had sex with an actual boyfriend....
Is that slutty or just normal for someone who's not getting it regularly?!
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?What O____o you can always chat beforehand!(Original post by aloneintheworld)
You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick. -
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?You shouldn't be ramming your opinion down someone's throat.(Original post by aloneintheworld)
You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?For Christ sake, don’t call them ONS. Let everyone know that you have had 5 relationships and you will receive the blessings of your peers and most on this forum. If you admit to an ONS…well you’re a slut.(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 18 and have had 5 one night stands, but have never had sex with an actual boyfriend....
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?Your name explains why you're so grumpy.(Original post by aloneintheworld)
You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick. -
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?I think one night stands in general are a bit slutty tbh, but maybe I'm one of those old fashioned types that doesn't draw the distinction between meaningful love-making with a partner and casual sex just for sexs sake.
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?Not having a one night stand ever is obviously not too many. Having one night stand is not too many either. Therefore, by this logic you can have as many one night stands as you want. It won't suddenly make it "too many"
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?People enjoy sex... get over it you sad, hopeless Virgin.(Original post by aloneintheworld)
You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
EDIT: Look, stop sucking God's (imaginary) cock... After reading some of your religious, anti-sex posts, I've decided that whenever I see you around I'm going to shoot you off your high horse, detonate your ivory tower and crush your religious ideals, all at a 120 bpm. You sancitmonious bitch...Last edited by spazman21; 06-01-2011 at 05:03. -
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?If you can still look at yourself and not feel ashamed, sad or guilty, then you should be fine. You're not living for anybody else and there is no 'number limit' to things like this.
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Re: how many one night stands is too many?I wouldn't have an ONS unless there were extenuating circumstances, but 'slutty' is only a subjective measure that other people will use to judge you. If you start to feel cheap, then I guess you've gone too far.
If you ever read 'priceless' Its about Charlie Daniels, she was a prostitute and then a pimp and if you read her book, despite doing all sorts you wouldn't think she was a slut at all. In fact she struck me as a positive member of society in the end.
Only time i really think that someone's whore-ish is if they've cheated on someone who didn't deserve it. Thats not really forgiveable IMO.
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