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    I'm 18 and have had 5 one night stands, but have never had sex with an actual boyfriend....

    Is that slutty or just normal for someone who's not getting it regularly?!
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    I'd call it slutty if it's not the same guy or your boyfriend, but I guess it depends on your morals. You do what you like, it's your life ...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 18 and have had 5 one night stands, but have never had sex with an actual boyfriend....

    Is that slutty or just normal for someone who's not getting it regularly?!
    I'd make sure you're using protection with so many different people. But I wouldn't class it as slutty as you're not exactly having sex as much as any couple would; they would be doing it daily at least compared to your 5 times is nothing.

    It would be just bad if your not protecting yourself and the other self from STI's.
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    Dirtier than Hitlers kill/death ratio.
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    Nah I wouldn't call that slutty, I know girls who've had far more one night stands and aren't ashamed of it. As long as your safe, have sex with who you want!
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    depends how they came about, like if they were friends maybe not so much but yeah bordering on a bit slutty
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    No upper limit ( unless you're a woman and you're bordering dangerously on your limit :pierre:)
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    For a guy - no limit.
    For a girl, 1. That's society. INIT MAN :nn:
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    You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
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    (Original post by aloneintheworld)
    You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
    What O____o you can always chat beforehand!
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    (Original post by aloneintheworld)
    You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
    You shouldn't be ramming your opinion down someone's throat. :rolleyes:
    A one night stand isn't always with someone you don't know, you fool.
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    Rephrase the question:

    How many is not enough?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 18 and have had 5 one night stands, but have never had sex with an actual boyfriend....

    Is that slutty or just normal for someone who's not getting it regularly?!
    For Christ sake, don’t call them ONS. Let everyone know that you have had 5 relationships and you will receive the blessings of your peers and most on this forum. If you admit to an ONS…well you’re a slut.
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    (Original post by aloneintheworld)
    You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
    Your name explains why you're so grumpy.
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    I think one night stands in general are a bit slutty tbh, but maybe I'm one of those old fashioned types that doesn't draw the distinction between meaningful love-making with a partner and casual sex just for sexs sake.
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    Sex as much you want and with however many people you want, why do you care what people on TSR think?
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    Not having a one night stand ever is obviously not too many. Having one night stand is not too many either. Therefore, by this logic you can have as many one night stands as you want. It won't suddenly make it "too many"
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    (Original post by aloneintheworld)
    You shouldnt be doing such a disgusting thing. This is both for men and women. Sleeping with people who you dont know is such something i cant understand any good person would do. Sorry but people like you make me sick.
    People enjoy sex... get over it you sad, hopeless Virgin.

    EDIT: Look, stop sucking God's (imaginary) cock... After reading some of your religious, anti-sex posts, I've decided that whenever I see you around I'm going to shoot you off your high horse, detonate your ivory tower and crush your religious ideals, all at a 120 bpm. You sancitmonious bitch...
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    If you can still look at yourself and not feel ashamed, sad or guilty, then you should be fine. You're not living for anybody else and there is no 'number limit' to things like this.
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    I wouldn't have an ONS unless there were extenuating circumstances, but 'slutty' is only a subjective measure that other people will use to judge you. If you start to feel cheap, then I guess you've gone too far.

    If you ever read 'priceless' Its about Charlie Daniels, she was a prostitute and then a pimp and if you read her book, despite doing all sorts you wouldn't think she was a slut at all. In fact she struck me as a positive member of society in the end.

    Only time i really think that someone's whore-ish is if they've cheated on someone who didn't deserve it. Thats not really forgiveable IMO.

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