[anti-duck]

(Original post by Yawn11)
It still went in easy.

Either he as a smal dick or you have a bucket. Based on the info, I'm going with the latter.

Good detective work there Sherlock, I must say! Has one ever threw a sausage in a bus station?

[fidelity_blue]

First time for me, it never hurt and it's been enjoyable since I first had sex, and not just in the "this is comfortable/not painful" but actually "this is pleasurable/stimulating". I was pretty lucky to be honest.

[Anonymous]

I recently began engaging my gf in intercourse...the first time we did it after sometime she said she was feeling uncomfortable (even though she was v.wet, didn't need to use lube or anything at all)...and then sometime towards the middle of it she said she really needed the toilet....went off...came back...said it was weird, felt like she needed to go but when she got there nothing happened lol. i described this to my friend and she said that this feeling of "nearly peeing" oneself (or w/e it is) is a woman approaching an orgasm....is this right? could she have been experiencing uncomfortableness despite nearing an orgasm? my friend suggested i work longer on pre stimulation etc next time....shes a virgin and for ages before hand we had absolutely 0 luck getting it in lol.

[elixira]

I enjoyed it right from the start because I really liked the guy I was with. It's sex, if you don't enjoy it then surely you're with the wrong person or you have issues! xD It was a few times before I started orgasming from it, though. But that's not particularly important to me.

[impossible!]

I still don't ...

[Tw1x]

It never hurt, but it wasn't good until my second partner

[rachelkeira]

It always hurts for me for the first half an hour or so everytime. And I never orgasm.
Guys also always think I'm a virgin because I'm stupidly tight hahaha.
Just keep practising?

[dirtyoldriver]

First boyfriend was just jolly uncomfortable for a few goes, then it became ok/enjoyable I guess for the remaining 1.5 years of our relationship. But we had...problems

Nearly 2 years on with my new partner and it is just

[MovingOn]

I would say after about 5-10 times. Pretty unexpected, I don't think people talk about the fact sex takes a while to feel good, there's kind of an expectation that after you lose your virginity everything will be A-okay.

[Anonymous]

First time actually felt amazing, not gonna lie.

[Anonymous]

i enjoyed it with my boyfriend pretty much from the start. First time was a bit less good 'cause he was nervous, but it got better once we were both totally comfortable with each other!

[Anonymous]

(Original post by dirtyoldriver)
First boyfriend was just jolly uncomfortable for a few goes, then it became ok/enjoyable I guess for the remaining 1.5 years of our relationship. But we had...problems

Nearly 2 years on with my new partner and it is just

I think I speak for the rest of the forum in asking you to elaborate .

[make-cookies-not-war]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I recently began engaging my gf in intercourse...the first time we did it after sometime she said she was feeling uncomfortable (even though she was v.wet, didn't need to use lube or anything at all)...and then sometime towards the middle of it she said she really needed the toilet....went off...came back...said it was weird, felt like she needed to go but when she got there nothing happened lol. i described this to my friend and she said that this feeling of "nearly peeing" oneself (or w/e it is) is a woman approaching an orgasm....is this right? could she have been experiencing uncomfortableness despite nearing an orgasm? my friend suggested i work longer on pre stimulation etc next time....shes a virgin and for ages before hand we had absolutely 0 luck getting it in lol.

I used to get this all the time, but always repositioned when it happened because I found it terribly uncomfortable. However after briefly looking it up, it does seem like this is possibly what happens before a G-spot orgasm (which I've never had), so you could be right. I've just always assumed it was sex irritating the bladder, which is also a possibility, so who knows. The fact that she didn't actually need to urinate says that it's probably the G-spot thing

dammit, I wish I hadn't repositioned now

[DuttehGirl]

I didn't enjoy sex with my first boyfriend at all. I thought that sex would always be like that but I guess he was just rubbish in bed! I've slept with 2 guys since and I've really enjoyed it!

[Lucia.]

Didn't enjoy until I had a ONS a few months ago with a guy who's good in bed. This is despite having been in long term relationships. Go figure. Now I've discovered good sex, I know where my priorities are.

I liked that I had close emotional experiences with my previous boyfriends but the sex wasn't right for me.

[Anonymous]

I always enjoyed it, even on my first time.

But it was mediocre for quite a long time.. gradually improving, and I didn't orgasm for about 2 years.

(Original post by PortiaLovesMcqueen)
No. When a woman loses her virginity it is usually very painful due to the layer of skin in the opening of the vagina called a hymen, some women lose it before sex due to tampon use or excessive sports.

HYMEN EDUCATION TIME
(Not that you need correcting Portia, I'm just adding to what you've said)

The hymen is an extremely variable structure. It can be anything from completely absent from birth, to a slight thickening, to a ring-shaped membrane around the edges, and only in rare cases an actual membrane across the vagina (this would actually cause obstruction of menstruation and require medical treatment as soon as menses begin). It is different in every woman, of a different thickness, elasticity etc. It changes radically during puberty, and can change again during pregnancy and after childbirth.

It is not destroyed by sex, it can just be irritated or torn by it (and not necessarily just on the first time). It is more likely to be irritated/bleed the first few times, but it's not an on/off have it then lose it thing, as people often make out.

Note: Any/most women who are sufficiently unrelaxed and unlubricated during sex will experience pain and bleeding, whether they are a virgin or not. This probably accounts for a lot of first-time pain/bleeding. The hymen just gets the stick for it.

(Original post by Yawn11)
It still went in easy.

Either he as a smal dick or you have a bucket. Based on the info, I'm going with the latter.

Oh aren't you precious. What a poor reflection on your own abilities that you regard a woman having enjoyable, painless sex as a symptom of something being wrong.

VAGINA EDUCATION TIME

The vagina is an elastic, muscular structure - the capacity of which can alter radically, in all women, for example to readily hold in a tampon (no man is that small), or deliver a child.

There's no such thing as a "bucket" - only a woman who is more aroused and comfortable. Which, suprisingly, is possible (and desireable), even on your first time!

That's not to say you should feel bad if you do find sex a bit tight/uncomfortable, the first time or any other time. Because there are lots of reasons why your muscles may not be relaxed fully, which aren't anybody's fault - but can still be helped if it is a problem.

But noone here (I extremely highly doubt it) has anything anatomically, or innately wrong with the shape or size of their vagina! (Or their penis for that matter)

Don't let the genital nazis get you down, and please don't listen to their ignorance.

[Emmzaa]

I enjoyed it the first time and managed to climax twice through penetration and foreplay. I'm assuming I just really liked the guy.
My second partner was awful and I didn't enjoy sex one little bit. Now my current partner is amazing and I enjoy it all the time.

[forgetamine]

It took me a long time to actually enjoy sex. The first guy was rubbish, he only cared about himself and didn't do anything to make me happy, but at the time I didn't have anyone else to compare to so I thought that was it. I still kept on ****ing that guy for a few months which I regret because I should have found a better guy.
After that just had drunk sex with a few people which wasn't that good either, none of the guys could make me happy or I just don't remember it very well.
After more than two years me and my boyfriend got together and I finally know what it's like to have an orgasm, thank god.

[Sophiemaybabe]

started out amazing, multiple orgasms, but it went down hill, now i hate it and never want to do it again