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    My boyfriend just ended a seven month relationship over text, after knowing each other for just under a year and being together for a little over seven months.

    The reasons were:
    Because I go clubbing, i'm now 18,- but i've been 3 times since the start ofn December,- not exactly alot.
    Because I'm selfish,- i'm not comfortable with my sexuality and don't like kissing him in public often or holding hands, which I've said from the start, yet most days I still do kiss in public once or twice, but I really hate it,- why do I want to force my sexuality down the throats of others.
    Because of "other guys",- which there are none of.

    I feel so empty right now, lost and confused, sick and ****. I don't understand, i've never spent so much time, money or effort with anyone. He, until two days ago, was so full on.

    Does anyone else think this is cold?
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    no
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    Sucks to be you
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    Ouch. Thas cold. Not your problem however, you're being a normal 18 year old, if he can't handle that, screw him.
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    Did he have to pay for the text, or is he on contract?
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    :console:
    Either he was drunk and just had a plague strike his house, or I'd say you're better off without him. Even if he's one of those people that doesn't like talking about touchy-feely stuff, it was cold.

    Sorry about the anon.
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    Try not to dwell on it, allow yourself to grieve over the relationship for a short time, pick yourself back up and move on. By the sounds of it hes not worth it anyway
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    Get a girlfriend.
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    (Original post by Magma828)
    Did he have to pay for the text, or is he on contract?
    Unlimited texts :l
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    This happens to everyone, don't think you're the only one.
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    (Original post by Converse)
    Get a girlfriend.
    I'm actually considering that, none of these problems and she'd be clingy.
    Might have to close my eyes when she's naked though
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    (Original post by Jmzie-Coupe)
    This happens to everyone, don't think you're the only one.
    I know that, never said I was.
    I was asking if he was justified, or cold and heartless.
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    That's no fun

    Yes, it's mean, but if he's going to be like that then he's not worth the effort. Hope you feel ok again soon *hug*
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    (Original post by Magma828)
    Did he have to pay for the text, or is he on contract?
    i was thinking this, if he had to pay for that text then feel honoured OP

    if it was a multimedia text then count yourself lucky that you had such a caring chap for 7 months
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    He sounds immature. Grieve, forget and move on.
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    Sounds like a bit of a dick, forget him.
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    (Original post by Jmzie-Coupe)
    This happens to everyone, don't think you're the only one.
    errr no it doesn't :curious:
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    (Original post by Mr. Orange)
    i was thinking this, if he had to pay for that text then feel honoured OP

    if it was a multimedia text then count yourself lucky that you had such a caring chap for 7 months
    Nope :l
    Apparently, it couldn't be done over the phone or in person, which okay, perhaps I understand. Yet, am I not worth more :l
    grrr.
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    My friend was going out with a girl for about 4 or 5 months and she just changed her relationship status on facebook and never contacted him again! Hahaha.. so it could be worse!
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    He obviously had no balls if he couldn't break up in person. No balls, get it? Anyway, i'm not joking. Screw that bitch. You'll be alright OP, bit of a downer for now. You found out the harsh way but you still found out: he isn't worth it.

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