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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlI don't get what you're saying(Original post by 33kerryhouse)
Simple, religious, honest and a wee good looking is all I was looking for and I still am but it seems that all people want these days is not marriage but girlfriend-boyfriend thing.
And talking about marriages most Pakistani families in this country are insanely convinced that if they get their daughters and sons married to their cousins that is going to be very safe and successful. Are you guys dumb? seriously and what's about this caste thing . BH I thought it was only in ancient India you had this caste system where you are not allowed to marry outside your caste.
In Paki-families if you are a Raja you cant marry to someone who is a Choudhury forget about marrying someone who is not a Pakistani.. This is the worst form of bigotry ever.. And this is prevalent even in the families who think they are "religious"
I dont know why I am ranting when I simply wanted to hunt for my bride!.
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlLol I hear you OP, although, from my experience and the Muslim families I know, they are actually very liberal about who their sons and daughters marry - main criteria is obviously that the other person is Muslim and preferably also Pakistani, so there is hope for you yet. Also, good things come to those who wait, maybe when you stop looking, your bride might find you
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlI'm Muslim and I get what your saying but my dad is pretty young he married when he was 19 so he's kind of a laid back I think he would approve of me marrying another Muslim, but not a non-Muslim but I agree with the not marrying a non-Muslim because I don't see how I would get along with somebody with different beliefs to me.
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlI get you op! its so true all people seem to think about is getting a boyfriend/girlfriend having fun I just think what's the point. Why don't you just get married i mean i think its right to go out with one guy/girl after other its just so wrong.
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlOP you have apparently absolutely no idea about muslim families and the reasons they don't want their daughters to marry non-muslim. There is no case system in islam. If you want to marry a pakistani girl that is muslim they have nothing to do with the case system as this is only for indians. It is forbidden for a muslim girl to marry a non-muslim according to her religion. Apart from that it is very hard to believe that these people can get along when married. The girl wakes up in the morning before the sun rises and that every day to pray while you don't believe in her religion at all? That marriage will most likely fail due to different beliefs and view of life.
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlI am a Muslim mashallah. I wasnt talking about Islam but Pakistanis.(Original post by Giggy88)
OP you have apparently absolutely no idea about muslim families and the reasons they don't want their daughters to marry non-muslim. There is no case system in islam. If you want to marry a pakistani girl that is muslim they have nothing to do with the case system as this is only for indians. It is forbidden for a muslim girl to marry a non-muslim according to her religion. Apart from that it is very hard to believe that these people can get along when married. The girl wakes up in the morning before the sun rises and that every day to pray while you don't believe in her religion at all? That marriage will most likely fail due to different beliefs and view of life. -
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlWell your were talking about Pakistanis and as 95-97% of the Pakistani population are muslim, and the girl you want to marry is muslim, I do not see why the case system is important in this situation.(Original post by 33kerryhouse)
Simple, religious, honest and a wee good looking is all I was looking for and I still am but it seems that all people want these days is not marriage but girlfriend-boyfriend thing.
And talking about marriages most Pakistani families in this country are insanely convinced that if they get their daughters and sons married to their cousins that is going to be very safe and successful. Are you guys dumb? seriously and what's about this caste thing . BH I thought it was only in ancient India you had this caste system where you are not allowed to marry outside your caste.
In Paki-families if you are a Raja you cant marry to someone who is a Choudhury forget about marrying someone who is not a Pakistani.. This is the worst form of bigotry ever.. And this is prevalent even in the families who think they are "religious"
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlWTF?! Here, i'd be willing to wait as long as she needs me to and I think getting married/showing some form of commitment is rrally important in a relationship - but having a BF/GF is the way forward.(Original post by Anonymous)
I get you op! its so true all people seem to think about is getting a boyfriend/girlfriend having fun I just think what's the point. Why don't you just get married i mean i think its right to go out with one guy/girl after other its just so wrong.
You CANNOT jump into marriage like that. Watching people saying their vows on films alone makes me **** bricks. I hope one day I find a nice lass who i'd love forever and **** but shopping around is much much better than risking losing/hurting/****ing up your life by jumping head first into marriage.
Your goal in life should be to reach inner content and happiness. Leaping head first into marrying someone is actually just a short term thrill which has very little chance of lasting. You're suggestion of not going out with different people till you find the one is stupid. While it may take longer, is less 'old fashioned' it is by no means less special.
I'd rather have a long lasting, loving connection with my wife than risk it on a whim and be each others first love/sex/kiss etc.
Am I making sense?
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Re: want to marry a Pakistani Muslim girlThe OP said Pakistanis. Yes, theres no caste system in Islam, but that doesn't stop Pakistanis creating ridiculous divisions between even their own ethnic group.(Original post by Giggy88)
OP you have apparently absolutely no idea about muslim families and the reasons they don't want their daughters to marry non-muslim. There is no case system in islam.
Muslims love saying "but its not in Islam". When muslims are doing something en masse, people will think that thing is related to Islam.
