Anon, I agree with the sensitivity thing. "you're looking healthier" instantly, to me, means "wow, you're gaining weight." You scrutinise the most absurd things, don't you?
Anyway, I am 26 and as adults, legal adults, we are responsible and liable for our own actions. Our parents can only advise at this point. That's why, as a sufferer, anon, you need to make that decision for yourself I'm afraid. This is a blessing and a curse; you need to recognise and TAKE that first step yourself. And you should. I have and I promise you, despite the emotional turmoil it's produced, you need to do it or else it'll eventually kill you. And being dead sucks, despite my inability to comment on first-hand experience.
Anon, seriously. I struggle every day with this. But I struggle knowing I will eventually have this by the balls and win. The logical reasoning states one thing and the disorder states another, but you know what's right.
Briesandwich, you are absolutely an inspiration and I implore everyone in this thread to rep her up. You are an absolute hero to me to have endured this entire process without pure madness, and you have nothing but my absolute respect.