The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' Thread
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadYeah i agree, but how would you act in front of the girl once shes rejected you?(Original post by jblackmoustache)
I used to get really down and think the problem is me, but I look at it this way:
Why would I want to be with someone who is a stuck up bitch anyway? What if she's the one with the problem and she's too uptight and shy? I know loads of people who don't have a problem with me so why is she the only one who has a problem? Loads more fish in the sea. -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadNo idea. I'm no expert with this stuff. Everything I say is theory (based on observation). It hasn't actually been tried or tested yet (I will test it all(Original post by LadyLondoner)
One question: how do you guys deal with rejection?
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But... I think everyone will get rejected sometimes. You just have to remember for everyone that rejects you there are a million other people who wont. You just have to find them. Also its rare you will meet a rude person that often. If the rejection is 'sorry not interested' or something like that then that is ok. If it she laughs in your face then that might hurt a bit
What if you do a sneak attack and she doesn't see you coming?(Original post by Addzter)
APPARENTLY, a three second rule is useful when picking up girls. Like, as soon as you see a girl, you have to decide in three seconds whether or not to go and chat her up, and then walk over. Any longer, and the idea that you're a socially awkward creep will have begun to take root in her subconscious. Like I said, APPARENTLY. -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadI like the directions idea! I so wish I'd thought of that a few weeks ago....
Other (lame) suggestions:
- Don't wear a wrist watch so you can ask her the time.
- Carry a lighter (even if you don't smoke) for when a pretty girl asks you for a light. Then you can say: "Actually, I don't really smoke - I just carry a lighter for when a pretty girl like you comes up to me and asks me for a light".
- Have some contact cards ready for if you're successful in getting chatting... -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadI'd just walk away if she's being a bitch. If she's being humble and nice about rejecting me then i'll just accept that and stay cool and maybe carry on talking anyway. These sorts of girls will take my advances as a compliment and will be flattered. So many girls are bitches about it though and enjoy crushing the guy. It's these women who are wastes of space.(Original post by LadyLondoner)
Yeah i agree, but how would you act in front of the girl once shes rejected you?Last edited by jblackmoustache; 24-04-2011 at 14:48. -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' Thread[QUOTE=Lewroll;31057780]No idea. I'm no expert with this stuff. Everything I say is theory (based on observation). It hasn't actually been tried or tested yet (I will test it all
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But... I think everyone will get rejected sometimes. You just have to remember for everyone that rejects you there are a million other people who wont. You just have to find them. Also its rare you will meet a rude person that often. If the rejection is 'sorry not interested' or something like that then that is ok. If it she laughs in your face then that might hurt a bit
Yeah, thats more than acceptable. Only because when I once rejected someone (in a really nice way!), he said he was going to "shank" me. That was kinda scary and weird -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadCouldnt agree more!(Original post by jblackmoustache)
I'd just walk away if she's being a bitch. If she's being humble and nice about rejecting me then i'll just accept that and stay cool and maybe carry on talking anyway. So many girls are bitches about it though and enjoy crushing the guy. It's these women who are wastes of space. -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadUnless it's a business card for work, I'd say this is a bad move. Just makes you look like a serial pick artist.(Original post by Thomas2)
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' Thread(Original post by LadyLondoner)
Yeah i agree, but how would you act in front of the girl once shes rejected you?
Perhaps something a long the lines of: "No worries. I thought it was worth a try. Nice to meet you." Then forget it. There's always another fish!
When getting into this game you need to have a realistic sense of you're chances. Most pretty girls have BFs. -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadI wouldn't even give a business card. It just makes you look like a player with big money. You'll give her an image of a job in the city with a flash car and stylish city pad. Just remembering a mobile number is good enough.(Original post by Panda Bear)
Unless it's a business card for work, I'd say this is a bad move. Just makes you look like a serial pick artist. -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadI wouldn't go as far as to say these words, just stick with cute(Original post by Lewroll)
METHOD #98 The asker of directions
This is a great way to talk to someone without freaking them out. Its socially acceptable to talk to strangers in two situations (according to Michael Mcintyre). The first being to ask the time. The second is when you are asking for directions. This technique focuses on the 2nd.
Guy (notices hot girl in a public place). Approaches her from the front with a friendly smile
You: Excuse me do you know how to get to [Insert bull**** place you don't really want to go to]
Girl: Yeah what you wanna do is take a left at BLAH BLAH BLAH
Guy (pretend to listen, maybe even nod and ask the occasional question to make it look realistic- keep eye contact (not creepy))
Guy: Thanks a lot
Girl: Its ok (turns to walk away)
Guy: Oh one more thing. I didn't actually stop you to ask you directions, I just wanted an excuse to talk to you as I think you look amazing/beautiful
Girl: Reeeeaally??
Guy:
See with this technique the girl isn't freaked out by your approach as she wasn't expecting it. She was already comfortable talking to you as she had already spoken to you for a moment previously.
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadWell actually, I wouldnt say "most" pretty girls have a boyf, the most attractive girls in my group of friends are all single!(Original post by Thomas2)
Perhaps something a long the lines of: "No worries. I thought it was worth a try. Nice to meet you." Then forget it. There's always another fish!
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadGood advice.(Original post by trapzbrah)
I wouldn't go as far as to say these words, just stick with cute
I'd stay away from saying 'amazing', 'beautiful' or 'stunning'. They're just too extreme. That's something i'd say to 'wifey' material.
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' Thread'Does this rag smell of chloroform to you?'(Original post by Cast.Iron)
Chloroform is always a knockout. -
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadOoh let me know how it goes(Original post by Lewroll)
Really? So if a guy sat next to you and started sobbing you would talk to him? You wouldn't think he was a pathetic loser? Great. I will test that one and return with my findings.
It's good because then it's the girl approaching you, rather than you approaching the girl. If she doesn't react, just go to a different carriage and find another fit girl to cry next to
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Re: The 'How to Approach Random Girls in the Street' ThreadThey're like sharks though - they WILL see you coming.(Original post by Lewroll)
What if you do a sneak attack and she doesn't see you coming?
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It's good because then it's the girl approaching you, rather than you approaching the girl. If she doesn't react, just go to a different carriage and find another fit girl to cry next to 
