(Original post by Broderss)
If she thought I was gay or uninterested why would she give me a hug after our coffee and a hug with a big smile when she sees me the next day?
Oddly that's pretty much where I got that idea from. She found you non-threatening. It may be massively untrue, of course, I'm just generalising from my own thoughts. But the only guys I hugged where my gay mate and guys that were like brothers to me. I didn't hug boyfriend until AFTER I'd drunkenly confessed I liked him.
She might like you, but have thought you didn't like her, hence the smile and hug. But now there's a chance for her, she could be getting scared. Either way, whether I'm right or not (probably not, tbh ) you have to do something to get closure!
She's enjoyign the attention but when things are getting a bit too intense she's backing out. Then when you stop making an effort, she appears again, missing your attention. I don't think you'll be getting anywhere with this one. If you've got nothing to lose, then just out how you like her and if she feels the same.