If you don't want to be in a swinging relationship - that's fine - but he does and you should leave
Some guys can like their "gf" very much but love watching her with other guys - that's swinging.
The money thisng - well, that's a pretty stupid thing to say on his part - and very insulting. I sensible girl would remind her boyfroend that she is not his whore and FOR THIS REASON you should leave.
I'm sorry miss, but the sooner you leave this relationship the better because you can not give him what he wants, and you do not want to be what he wants. Plenty more guys out there.
No guy who really loves you would want to share you with ANYONE let alone his friends. Leave him, seriously. No matter what he says about you not finding anyone else, don't listen to him. You will find someone else and seriously you are probably better off with no one than with him.
(Original post by Anonymous)
I know but we;ve been through so much he was there when no one else was I am physically repulsed by it, I have tried to leave him but he said that i'll never find anyone who loves me like he does because no one else will understand me :'(
What he says is bullsh*t.
There will be other people who come along who will understand you and love you. FACT.
True, these people are rare for all of us, but there are more and you will find this out one day.
Yeah, everyone have a go at the guy for sharing his sexual desires with his GF! What a bastard!
All right, he didn't go about it the best way, but at least he's talking to her. Not everyone has the same, mainstream sexual desires at others. To be honest, I don't think it was him offering to pimp her out to his friends, more he wants that situation, because he finds it attractive and was trying to think of a way to make her want to do it aswell. Which was stupid of him. But come on guys, cut him a bit of slack.
(Original post by laughylolly)
No guy who really loves you would want to share you with ANYONE let alone his friends.
This is not true - it is possible for a guy to love a woman very much and still get a kick out of watchijng her with another guy. It's not my thing and it's obviously not yours but it does not mean that he does not love you.
(Original post by laughylolly)
Leave him, seriously. No matter what he says about you not finding anyone else, don't listen to him. You will find someone else and seriously you are probably better off with no one than with him.
This is true though
If you don't want to play that way then don't play that way - he does, you don't, so move on and YOU WILL find someone else.
(Original post by silverbolt)
FFS Why is that such a knee jerk response on this forum to everything from "he slept with my mother" to "he lost one of my socks"
OP clout him round the head with something hard, tell him to wake the hell up.
Ok asking if youd sleep with his friends is one thing. If you dont ask you dont get and all that. I can understan that but when you said no he should have left it or at least made sure you were serious.
But to then offer you money for it is insulting, crass and just nasty. I dont know whether you you should dump him for it but seriously the guy needs putting in his place.
He is trying to pimp his girlfriend that is not a misdemeanor that really serious she needs to leave him no excuses for this one.