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My girlfriend has become an escort

My girlfriend and i are both 21 and were both studying at uni. My GF was at the same uni as me and we have been together for four years and at uni for the past two.

In January last year she met a new group of girl mates whilst on a night out and she soon stopped seeing her old set and went solely out with the new lot. I noticed a change in her, she became more confident and started to dress sexier, which i was fine with because she seemed happy.

A short while after she told me that three of the girls were escorts, which explained why they had so much money all of the time. I nervousily asked her at the time if she would ever do escorting, and she told me categorically, no.

In August last year she hit me with the news that she was booked in for breast implants, which came as a total surprise and a shock. She went ahead with the op and went to a v large size, and the size shocked me even more but she told me it was what she wanted.

Well after the op she became even more confident and outgoing with her looks and her body.

Then in January of this year she informed me she had been asked to try escorting out by her friends' agent. I told her it would mean sleeping with clients but she said she would only try the non sexual escorting work. I naively went along with it and after her third booking she confessed she had slept with him but tried comforting me by saying it was just a part time job and the money would see her through the rest of university.

But in April she admitted she wanted to focus on being a professional escort and was pulling out of her studies with immediate effect. Since then she has told me she wants a second boob job to go even bigger and i see less and less of her.

Am i right to be worried my all of this? Has she allowed herself to become wrapped up in her new world?

Your thoughts would be appreciated.

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Reply 1
Am I right to be worried? Dude she shagged another man and you still stayed with her?
Reply 2
...Seriously? O_o
After reading the title I was going to say: "If you're not comfortable about it either sort it out with her or break up". After what you've said then I suggest you break up. You clearly don't want her sleeping with guys for money, so it's not like it's gonna end well.
Lol, trollalicious :rofl: Seriously though, if you aren't joking, you should leave her.
If you are not a troll: why the hell are you still with her?
Yes i think so m8, tbh i would not be comfortable with it at all. and i think pulling out of uni is a terrible choice to make. If she is set on doing this then you need to think about what you want to do. I cant imagine being with a girl who was an escort but she seems to be making these choices with out considering your feelings. Its pretty selfish tbh brah and i think you need to have a long think about what you want and then have a chat with her. Good luck man and please feel free to PM whenever you want to talk.
Reply 7
You mean she's become a pro slut? Get out of there man, she clearly doesn't give a stuff about you.
Reply 8
Whoaa man! hang on .. surely a person would rage and destroy couple of faces in bar if they knew their partner has been cheating. Your case is not cheating but it's similar they do the same dreadful thing that you don't want them to do.
"it was just a part time job and the money would see her through the rest of university." Surely there are loans that helps students with their tuition fees and all. It's just a lame excuse imo. She's totally wrapped up in her new world. I wouldn't like to suggest breaking up, but it does seem a good option.
You are absolutely right to worry this isn't normal and bit crazy to have gone this long with her...
Keep her, she'll bring in a good sum of cash into the household :biggrin:
Leave her to it, she obviously enjoys it and is going to keep it up. You're better off dumping her or pretty soon you'll have to pay to date her.
Reply 11
I think you can still be with her and I don't think you should be worried. Prostitution is the oldest profession in history and she's not having a relationship with these people, they mean nothing to her. At the end of the day, you'll be the most important person to her. Don't always associate sex with relationships! Not that I'm for prostitution or anything.
Original post by markleon
My girlfriend and i are both 21 and were both studying at uni. My GF was at the same uni as me and we have been together for four years and at uni for the past two.

In January last year she met a new group of girl mates whilst on a night out and she soon stopped seeing her old set and went solely out with the new lot. I noticed a change in her, she became more confident and started to dress sexier, which i was fine with because she seemed happy.

A short while after she told me that three of the girls were escorts, which explained why they had so much money all of the time. I nervousily asked her at the time if she would ever do escorting, and she told me categorically, no.

In August last year she hit me with the news that she was booked in for breast implants, which came as a total surprise and a shock. She went ahead with the op and went to a v large size, and the size shocked me even more but she told me it was what she wanted.

Well after the op she became even more confident and outgoing with her looks and her body.

Then in January of this year she informed me she had been asked to try escorting out by her friends' agent. I told her it would mean sleeping with clients but she said she would only try the non sexual escorting work. I naively went along with it and after her third booking she confessed she had slept with him but tried comforting me by saying it was just a part time job and the money would see her through the rest of university.

But in April she admitted she wanted to focus on being a professional escort and was pulling out of her studies with immediate effect. Since then she has told me she wants a second boob job to go even bigger and i see less and less of her.

Am i right to be worried my all of this? Has she allowed herself to become wrapped up in her new world?

Your thoughts would be appreciated.


It's a free country - if she wants big artificial tits and money for having sex it's up to her. It's up to you if you want to go on having a relationship with her.
Reply 13
Is she worth staying with?
I know this is really judgemental as I do not know how you feel about exactly, but to stay with her even though she's not honouring any of your feelings, love or affection you have for her, shows you must care about her a great deal.
But seriously by staying with such a selfish person who is still doing what shes doing although shes hurting you, cheating on you makes it seem right when its not in the slightest.
You have to tell her to quit or break up as it isnt fair on you.

If you want advice or just talk feel free to PM me hun.
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Reply 14
Leave her. Simples.
Reply 15
That'd not on. It's now not only a job; it's a lifestyle. These men could have diseases which she'll pass on to you. Everything she's doing is for herself; she doesn't care about you and your opinion. She doesn't even make as much time for you any more. I think you'd be wise to get out ASAP; you should never have to share your partner like that.
Reply 16
Although I personally see nothing wrong with someone being involved with the sex industry I know I could not be in a relationship with someone in that line of work. Its up to you really.
Reply 17
Have some self repect. Jesus Christ son!
Become her pimp.
Reply 19
insecure troll, is ULTIMATELY FU CK ING BASTARDLY INSECURE!

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