Confused about a Lad

heh typical girl

You had something and didt want it
Now you cant have it, you want it

Reply 2

OP

heh typical girl

You had something and didt want it
Now you cant have it, you want it

Trust me, i dont wanna feel like this

Reply 3

Harv616

Cass88

Trust me, i dont wanna feel like this

I know

Just makeing a point that girls never know what they want.

Just find somebody else, you will move on soon enuf.

Reply 4

amie

14

I doubt its because you (still) have feelings for him...a little jealousy over what used to be 'yours' is natural, but 9 times out of 10 it doesn't mean anything, don't worry about it! :smile:

Reply 5

Nakeli

Jealousy is a bitch. From my past experience, I'm gonna take a stab and say you enjoyed the attention and got on well with the guy. But now he's with someone else you feel down because someone else is getting their attention. It's like, you don't want them, but you also don't want anyone else to have them as it leaves you feeling jealous and betrayed.

If they dumped their gf and came back to you, would you accept them with open arms? I'm guessing you wouldn't, because you'd realise once again that you don't actually fancy them.

Am I anywhere close on this? The frustrations of life eh?!

Reply 6

Cass88

Trust me, i dont wanna feel like this

Youll get over it soon enough, im sure this guy isn't so amazing that you cant find his qualitys in someone else,
Plus he has gota gf so deep down you know you got to move on as its not fair on his gf,
Imagine if you had a bf and there was another girl trying to drag him away from you

Reply 7

amie

14

Nakeli

Jealousy is a bitch. From my past experience, I'm gonna take a stab and say you enjoyed the attention and got on well with the guy. But now he's with someone else you feel down because someone else is getting their attention. It's like, you don't want them, but you also don't want anyone else to have them as it leaves you feeling jealous and betrayed.

If they dumped their gf and came back to you, would you accept them with open arms? I'm guessing you wouldn't, because you'd realise once again that you don't actually fancy them.

Am I anywhere close on this? The frustrations of life eh?!

Exactly! I'll rep you for that tomorrow, just because I can relate to that so much :biggrin:

Reply 8

OP

Jealousy is a bitch. From my past experience, I'm gonna take a stab and say you enjoyed the attention and got on well with the guy. But now he's with someone else you feel down because someone else is getting their attention. It's like, you don't want them, but you also don't want anyone else to have them as it leaves you feeling jealous and betrayed.

If they dumped their gf and came back to you, would you accept them with open arms? I'm guessing you wouldn't, because you'd realise once again that you don't actually fancy them.

Am I anywhere close on this? The frustrations of life eh?!

Yeah very very close, im not sure if id welcome him back, wed have to take it very slow i think

Reply 9

strumpetina

I reckon ur being unfair on this guy. If you really liked him you'd have stayed with him and not messed him about. I'd advise you to let his relationship with this girl ride out, if it does, and if you still like him then - go for it. I don't think it's fair on him to tell him now.

Reply 10

OP

Yea, i dont think i will do anything, its just the feelings there and its soo annoying coz i cnt get rid!!

Reply 11

strumpetina

I reckon ur being unfair on this guy. If you really liked him you'd have stayed with him and not messed him about. I'd advise you to let his relationship with this girl ride out, if it does, and if you still like him then - go for it. I don't think it's fair on him to tell him now.

I agree with Strumpetina apart from suggesting you let his relationship ride out, theres no time for sitting on your ass for 1 guy when theres plenty of other decent guys out there who are slipping away while you mope around about this 1 guy who you had your chance with.
Hes moved on so should you and intime you will

Reply 12

OP

I agree with Strumpetina apart from suggesting you let his relationship ride out, theres no time for sitting on your ass for 1 guy when theres plenty of other decent guys out there who are slipping away while you mope around about this 1 guy who you had your chance with.
Hes moved on so should you and intime you will

Thanks

Reply 13

Cass88

Thanks

Anytime

Reply 14

strumpetina

yeh, feelings are a btch :frown:

just need to forget him and go out have a good time! find another lad

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