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    slept with my best mate
    ok so afew of me and my mates went out got drunk and woke up next to one of my best mates.

    i dont want it to be awkward with him as i still want to be friends with him but im not sure where i stand, weve not rly spoke about it since so is it best to carry on like normal or say something about it??
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    Re: slept with my best mate
    From all my experiences, it just becomes awkward. It would be best to take it easy for a while (not hang out with him as much, etc.) but don't ignore him cause otherwise he'll think you hate him. It's okay not to talk about it. Especially don't be like "I was drunk blah blah". That will just make you sound like every other girl.
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    Re: slept with my best mate
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ok so afew of me and my mates went out got drunk and woke up next to one of my best mates.

    i dont want it to be awkward with him as i still want to be friends with him but im not sure where i stand, weve not rly spoke about it since so is it best to carry on like normal or say something about it??
    do you actually remember having sex?
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    Re: slept with my best mate
    why would a guy become best friends with a female other than to have sex with her? you have been had
  5. DorianGrayism's Avatar
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    Re: slept with my best mate
    I am assuming that this is a female.....

    It is not a big deal. Just talk to him about it.
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