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ms2006

I'm sure you're all going to think I'm a sad git, but here goes...

I'm 18 and have never had sex before, but would like to. I've been looking for an escort to have sex with and have found one who looks nice and sounds nice on the phone. The thing is, as much as I really want to experience my first time with someone experienced, I'm now having second thoughts.

Any advise please?

Do it. Nothing wrong with a whore!

Reply 81

zooropa

ms2006

Only geeks and losers pay for sex.

Don't do it.

Reply 82

bananas1234

This is probably not the best of ideas really...

Reply 83

Adhsur

You should also consider the reactions of your future gf when she finds out how you lost your virginity :biggrin:

Reply 84

Howard

zooropa

Only geeks and losers pay for sex.

Don't do it.

That depends. In lots of countries any single male that doesn't sleep with whores would be considered a complete faggot.

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Adhsur

You should also consider the reactions of your future gf when she finds out how you lost your virginity :biggrin:

He could always lie.

Reply 85

jd27

Everyone pays for sex. How is just semantics. Make sure you're comfortable with whatever you do though, it's a good thing to get your virginity out of the way but don't do something you're going to regret.

It may just be a question of patience, but if you feel you have psychological fears about sex that have held you back, then this may be the best move. A friend did this.

Of course, that didn't work out, mainly because as he entered a brothel he met his dad, but in theory it was a good plan.

Reply 86

username30638

jd27

Everyone pays for sex. How is just semantics.

If you're talking about buying your girlfriend flowers, gifts etc then I'm sorry but that's a steaming load of cr*p. That is part of a normal relationship, and can't in any way be compared to handing a prostitute a wad of cash in exchange for sex.

Hate to say it but only people who are lacking something in their life / personality pay for sex, I find it very sad that so many people are that desperate, but what can you do. If the OP is still reading and has not lost the will to live, don't do it! Imagine yourself trying to explain it to a future girlfriend / wife... :eek:

Reply 87

warranty-ideal

jeff2233

chillax, I think the guy was just being humerous, it's just semantics 'joke' about paying for sex.

Reply 88

Kooldood

Dont Be Poetic In A Poetic Way

Reply 89

Wee Dave

i dont know there is an awful lot of female opinion in this thread which emm dont quite get how a male thinks. Mmm not quite true a male at 18 then.

Having said that and implied i think he should go for it. I will say you shouldnt because i really dont think you will have achieved anything really. Your life wont suddenly change overnight and whatever changes you want in your life be it girl, respect, manhood or which ever is currently playing on your mind that brought this idea on. You will just be you minus a wallet full of cash a week later

Reply 90

afhstingray

well i dont think its advisable for a first time..
if you really want to vent perhaps oral might be enough?

sex is good, but when you;re with someone your really love its great. but it also depends on your personality. if you;re the type that just wants physical pleasure then you wont get any additional pleasure from doing it with someone you are with for more than physical attractiveness

Reply 91

zooropa

Howard

That depends. In lots of countries any single male that doesn't sleep with whores would be considered a complete faggot.

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In "lots of countries" prostitution is considered immoral. Few countries actually have legal prostitution.

In Western society, it's losers who pay for sex.

Reply 92

scarletluv

no way! ur DAAT bad r u? girls will wan u 2, if u try 2 get 2 know them...
waiting doesn't mean years ...
girls might be waitin 4 somebody like u to come along 2...

Reply 93

I think that to be honest if you have any doubts then u shudnt. Because to be honest I reckon itd be better to live without sex for a bit longer then possibly (differs from person to person) live a life with a regret like that. I really regret the fact that I ever tried hard drugs and I also regret that I almost slept with a guy I had known for all of a couple of hours.....I will point out I am not a slag at first in fact i was like "Ill just get this sex thing out of the way" thinking it wudnt be a big deal, got there and suddenly realised.....no this isnt what I want. But I regret that it was even that close to happening. Im glad im still a virgin to be honest.

Btw to anyone who thinks sex isnt a big deal....if it wasnt a big deal, whats your view on rape? Because think of the effect that has on someone. Clearly sex is a big deal.

I will take in that tho part of the affect that rape has is the whole power thing. but there are other things with it aswell.

Reply 94

yanivi_pr2002

You are really young and I think that you can find a nice girl and do it for free instead of paying someone to do it for you. If you're desperate and do'nt want to wait or if you think there's no way you can find a girl that can do it with you for free, the go ahead...pay and do it! The only mayor disadvantage of this situation is that you cannot be a person who gets attached very easily to other people in an emotional way because you do'nt want to get attached or fall in love with a person who will only have sex with you if she gest paid.Remember this. :rock:

Reply 95

dogtanian

zooropa

In "lots of countries" prostitution is considered immoral. Few countries actually have legal prostitution.

In Western society, it's losers who pay for sex.

Prostitution is legal in this country.

Reply 96

xelprep

Anyone here ever had fun at Red Light District in Amsterdam? It sounds like heaven, I was talking to a guy that's been there about it. Women stand behind windows along the street, then you pick the one you like :cool:

Reply 97

OMGWTF

Wow, thats classy

Anyway, your first time will be your most important time. You will never forget it. So make it decent (Ie: not some whore)

Reply 98

Zoecb

Do it if you want to. They provide a service, you want that service. It's not a huge issue. I've considered it. I often tell my friends to pool their money and get me a male escort for my 19th birthday!

Reply 99

The Albatross

Seems like there are probably lots of girls waiting for someone too. Just find one of them. Just like its selfish to be lonely by yourself when there are so many other lonely people, its selfish to let some whore have your virginity when there will be loads of girls who would like it, for free!