Phoning a girl I'm seeing - too clingy?

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    Phoning a girl I'm seeing - too clingy?
    I've been seeing this girl for a little while and have been texting in between to organise dates and things. The thing is, I'm always quite nervous calling her unless I want to ask her out again - I feel I always need a reason or will come off rather clingy. I've called her before, like when seeing if she got back alright and that I enjoyed seeing her after a while but then she didn't reply and texted back soon after, as if she'd acknowledged the call. I seem to be doing most of the texting too - does this mean she's not into me?

    I just wanted to call how she is in general but I've texted her quite recently. Am I being too clingy do you think?
  2. HJV's Avatar
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    Re: Phoning a girl I'm seeing - too clingy?
    No I think it's actually more clingy to call with the reason of "seeing if she got back alright" than calling with the reason of asking her out on a date. Calling her with the latter reason is perfectly fine.
  3. deltabomber's Avatar
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    Re: Phoning a girl I'm seeing - too clingy?
    Doesnt seem to be much of a problem in my opinion. Good luck
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