[InnerTemple]

(Original post by TheCasual)
Maybe the best thing. But what if she tries it on before they've split? I doubt I can say no

Take some time imagining your friend getting really upset and then beating the crap out of you.

Just remember that image if she tries it on.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by InnerTemple)
Take some time imagining your friend getting really upset and then beating the crap out of you.

Just remember that image if she tries it on.

I guess thats a good idea. My heart aches for her. I miss when I don't see her and get a buzz when she texts/calls or I see her.

[7days]

(Original post by TheCasual)
Maybe the best thing. But what if she tries it on before they've split? I doubt I can say no

Just don't forget how it's hard to find a friend you'll trust. And how it's easy to find another hole for your d.ck.

[Atomic Dave]

(Original post by TheCasual)
I guess thats a good idea. My heart aches for her. I miss when I don't see her and get a buzz when she texts/calls or I see her.

This is a tough one, I can empathise with your situation but is it really worth losing your friendship over something like this? Personally, I couldn't do this to a close mate, the guilt would consume me.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by Atomic Dave)
This is a tough one, I can empathise with your situation but is it really worth losing your friendship over something like this? Personally, I couldn't do this to a close mate, the guilt would consume me.

If push comes to shove I probaly couldn't do it. I'm so confused

[Narcissist]

This girl sounds like poison. You claim she's been part of your life since you were 4. Obviously she wasn't part of your life for the 3 years she had a boyfriend/fiance who you didn't know about. Cut here out again, she's bad news. She cheated on her fiance, it looks like she'd be willing to cheat on your best friend, she will cheat on you.

Either way eventually you will be without her. You just need to ask yourself if you want to be without your best friend for the sake of fling.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by Narcissist)
This girl sounds like poison. You claim she's been part of your life since you were 4. Obviously she wasn't part of your life for the 3 years she had a boyfriend/fiance who you didn't know about. Cut here out again, she's bad news. She cheated on her fiance, it looks like she'd be willing to cheat on your best friend, she will cheat on you.

Either way eventually you will be without her. You just need to ask yourself if you want to be without your best friend for the sake of fling.

I was part of it, but ex was a ****er and didn't like her having male friends. I proper miss when I don't see her :-(

[TheCasual]

She still won't tell me what the dream was a about. She said I love teasing you with it, its entertaining. She was really flirty on text this morning.

[Nepene]

Bros before hos. Don't tap her until they split up. Avoid responding to texts, going to meet her.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by Nepene)
Bros before hos. Don't tap her until they split up. Avoid responding to texts, going to meet her.

Its hard, my heart says one thing and my mind another. Its funny because if I ignore her she gets all moody with me.

[Nepene]

(Original post by TheCasual)
Its hard, my heart says one thing and my mind another. Its funny because if I ignore her she gets all moody with me.

If she's cheating with you she's probably not good girlfriend prospects. If she gets bored of you she'll move on in a second and start flirting with your new best friend. Your mind is right.

Yes, she wants your penis and is sad if you don't give it to her.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by Nepene)
If she's cheating with you she's probably not good girlfriend prospects. If she gets bored of you she'll move on in a second and start flirting with your new best friend. Your mind is right.

Yes, she wants your penis and is sad if you don't give it to her.

I wouldn't just have sex with her, my friendship with my friend is far more important

[Stasiaxx]

(Original post by TheCasual)
Right to cut a long story short. I met my school boy crush in a nightclub, at the time she was engaged. We had a kiss, cuddle and a dance. We swapped numbers and have been texting regulaly. Then about 3 weeks ago my best friend came home on leave from army and I found out he had feelings to. It all came out about my feelings for her(my best friend grassed to the army friend). Then the other week I saw on FB that them two are now in a Relationship. He has now gone bacl to camp. Yesterday she invited me around to play Just Dance. We had a right laugh and then she started asking personal questions like how many girls i'd slept with and how long I last in bed. I also lost a bet with her and I had to give her FB password. About a hour and half I got home, she texted me and said i've just had a dream about you, But she won't tell me what its about. I sent her a text sayong don't tease me and she sent back you love me teasing you. I love spending time with her and i've no idea what to do

Well you can get with her and hurt your friend or get over her and find someone else who won''t be flirting with some else while with you. And i know a lot easier said then done, but if would you want to be with her if she was doing what she is doing to you with other guys.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by Stasiaxx)
Well you can get with her and hurt your friend or get over her and find someone else who won''t be flirting with some else while with you. And i know a lot easier said then done, but if would you want to be with her if she was doing what she is doing to you with other guys.

She's been with my friend less then 2 weeks and doing stuff like this. Its so hard, I want her part of my life.

[InnerTemple]

(Original post by TheCasual)
She's been with my friend less then 2 weeks and doing stuff like this. Its so hard, I want her part of my life.

Be strong!

You need to realise that she is out of bounds. You will destroy your friendship if you do anything with her.

She sounds like bad news too. It is likely that she will end up hurting you.

Do yourself a favour and move on. Take her to one side and tell her you just want to be friends.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by InnerTemple)
Be strong!

You need to realise that she is out of bounds. You will destroy your friendship if you do anything with her.

She sounds like bad news too. It is likely that she will end up hurting you.

Do yourself a favour and move on. Take her to one side and tell her you just want to be friends.

Its hardest thing i've been through. Everytime I send a normal text, she sends a flirtly text back.

[An Aspiring Guy]

(Original post by TheCasual)
Its hard, my heart says one thing and my mind another. Its funny because if I ignore her she gets all moody with me.

You're already whipped, son, and you're not even with her! Not sure if there's any turning back now...
Just think about what you're doing. If you ever cared about your mate, you'd forget about whatever you're feeling for her right now and put him first.

[TheCasual]

(Original post by An Aspiring Guy)
You're already whipped, son, and you're not even with her! Not sure if there's any turning back now...Just think about what you're doing. If you ever cared about your mate, you'd forget about whatever you're feeling for her right now and put him first.

Don't get that bit?

[InnerTemple]

(Original post by TheCasual)
Its hardest thing i've been through. Everytime I send a normal text, she sends a flirtly text back.

Look, I'll do you a favour - but just this once.

Give me her number and I'll satisfy her needs. That way she will stop trying to get her leg over you and you don't have to betray your friend.

[InnerTemple]

(Original post by TheCasual)
Don't get that bit?

I think he is saying that you are already under her thumb.