You guys were right, he's with tesco mobile which use 02 and completely went down, AND the entirety of the city has had a massive 2/3hr long power cut, and there are no phone boxes anywhere or internet connections, turns out he spent two hours trying to find anyway to reach me and was upset because he knew i'd be worrying.
I'm so relieved
Last edited by Lil-Lele; 11-07-2012 at 21:23.
How come you two aren't talking? I hate arguments.
(Original post by jeh_jeh)
It's not that you don't deserve him, but you need to calm down a bit. It's a vicious circle - you (in general) get more stressed, and then smaller and smaller situations stress you out - and eventually it will push him away. My boyfriend just admitted to me that there are things that I do that he hates, and obviously I didn't know because he's never told me before, but I can recognise that when I get stressed I get much more short-tempered and unreasonable. Calming down a bit will make you feel happier all round!
I lost a bracelet the boy bought me as a present the first year we were going out last year, and it was horrible.
In other news, he's not talking to me. And I've had a massive row about money with my mum. Oh, well, just more of a reason to get a job for after my MA and move out as soon as possible!
Urgh.... the boy has had a prep meeting for Spain. i know its crazy but i can't help but not give a **** that it went well and he's excited to go because it means 2 weeks away and a **** summer. I should stop being bitter and jealous but i'm so scared.
Last edited by 22KT22; 11-07-2012 at 21:55.
Oh hun, i don't think you want to see him too much at all, surely he wants to see you and he's annoyed you missed one weekend? I'm sure you'll be ok, maybe just need some breathing space, hope you see him soon.
(Original post by jeh_jeh)
Long story incredibly short, I went to London last minute last week and had to cancel on seeing the boy. On Friday night, we had a minor argument because I was getting stressed because my area was flooded and I was worried about how I was going to get him from the station on the Saturday. On Saturday morning I couldn't get through to him to see what time he was getting here. Turns out he'd purposely left his phone on silent, but didn't tell me he couldn't be bothered to come round because he was annoyed with me. So this has basically snowballed into another, very unproductive, argument about how we've got yet another summer of re sits. And it turns out that he's always always thought I'm too demanding and have wanted to see him too much (despite the fact that, on average, in the holidays we see each other less than once a week)... but never bothered to tell me!
But, yeah. And I'm working Monday to Friday now and a few busy weekends coming up, so goodness only knows when we're going to see each other next.
I guess you've just got to keep plodding on.
Plodding on is what i do best, just scared he wants to go off to Spain once we graduate, which i can't do.
Last edited by 22KT22; 11-07-2012 at 22:16.