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Sorry this is a spin off from the one about the girlfriend not giving blowjobs. My boyfriend always wants me to give him blowjobs, but i really don't like doing it. I have experessed to him that i don't like doing it, but he still asks for it. He has stopped giving me oral, which i don't mind cos its only fair that i don't get it if i won't give it, but he still says i'm selfish cos i won't give him head. Occasionally i will kiss it and if he asks i will even lick it but i really don't wanna do the whole thing and its getting annoying with him constanty demanding something that he knows i don't like.

Reply 1

i always gag.. and feel like puking when he shoots.

Reply 2

Lush Law

15

I don't really know what you expect people to say?!

If you don't wana do it, then don't. I can't really see how the issue can be elaborated on any further.

Reply 3

P1mP

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The_Crow

Sorry this is a spin off from the one about the girlfriend not giving blowjobs. My boyfriend always wants me to give him blowjobs, but i really don't like doing it. I have experessed to him that i don't like doing it, but he still asks for it. He has stopped giving me oral, which i don't mind cos its only fair that i don't get it if i won't give it, but he still says i'm selfish cos i won't give him head. Occasionally i will kiss it and if he asks i will even lick it but i really don't wanna do the whole thing and its getting annoying with him constanty demanding something that he knows i don't like.

HAHA..very graphic..sounds more like a porn fest :wink:

Reply 4

Drogue

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The_Crow

Sorry this is a spin off from the one about the girlfriend not giving blowjobs. My boyfriend always wants me to give him blowjobs, but i really don't like doing it. I have experessed to him that i don't like doing it, but he still asks for it. He has stopped giving me oral, which i don't mind cos its only fair that i don't get it if i won't give it, but he still says i'm selfish cos i won't give him head. Occasionally i will kiss it and if he asks i will even lick it but i really don't wanna do the whole thing and its getting annoying with him constanty demanding something that he knows i don't like.

It's your choice whether or not to do it, and kudos to you for not expecting him to go down on you without returning the favour. However he keeps asking because it's a strong desire for a lot of people. When anyone really wants something, they ask for it, often repeatedly. There's little you can do, without asking him to stop asking you, but I can't see that having a positive reaction.

Can I ask why you detest it so much? If it's about gagging or him coming in your mouth (sorry to be graphic :redface:

), then tell him you'll do it but you'll be in control. Oral sex is when the giver decides what does or doesn't happen, and so gagging can be avoided. However if you don't like it at all, then the only thing is to tell him firmly that you're not going to give him blowjobs, because you don't like them, and make him decide if he wants the two of you to stay together. To be honest, if you have that differing opinions about oral sex, maybe you aren't well suited in that area?

Reply 5

random123

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Drogue

When anyone really wants something, they ask for it, often repeatedly.

No, that's what children do. Adults are meant to know when to give up.

Reply 6

Drogue

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Joe_87

No, that's what children do. Adults are meant to know when to give up.

So when you really want the toilet, you don't ask for it repeatedly? When you really want to go to see a particular film, you don't ask your friend/partner more than once? When it comes to deciding where to go on holiday, you don't say more than once where you want to go?

I think it would be more problematic if he *did* give up on the idea of getting a blowjob - it may lead to him deciding he can't face spending the rest of his life without one and ending it. Maybe that is for the best, but I don't think asking repeatedly for something you really want is such an immature thing at all.

Reply 7

Barny

17

Learn to love it, otherwise you'll be making way for another girl.

Only joking.

:wink:

Reply 8

random123

2

Drogue

So when you really want the toilet, you don't ask for it repeatedly?

Generally I don't ask anyone when I want the toilet, lol. But yeah I kinda see your point.

Reply 9

SophistiCat

2

Giving blowjobs can be boring when it takes ages or the person doesn't seem to be enjoying themself as much as you'd like... :rolleyes:

If they do, however, I really enjoy giving head!

Reply 10

bluejeansdave

9

If you are doing a 'blow job' make sure all are enjoying..........

Reply 11

danni_bella

17

red_roadkill

I don't really know what you expect people to say?!

If you don't wana do it, then don't. I can't really see how the issue can be elaborated on any further.

Yeah what he said. :cool:

Or use protection, actually that's a safe idea if your BF is into that kind of thing :/ :smile:

Reply 12

bluejeansdave

9

SophistiCat,
Yep your totally right, if people are doing it make sure its fun and gets to the head, as you pointed out.

Reply 13

Logan

4

i think your bf is addicted to your mouth, hes just having withdrawal symptoms from not getting too much bj. I mean, -_-, hes demanding aint he?

Reply 14

lovelee-jublee

12

I don't particularly like giving it but I will if my boyfriend asks me - it usually takes a lot of persuading, so I agree with Drogue!

But if we've been out and had a few drinks I'll do it without complaining! :rolleyes:

So maybe that's a tip...try it when your a bit tipsy, you might enjoy then! :p:

Reply 15

qwerty_st/n

11

i don't like giving head personally...lucky for me i'm always getting coldsores so i threaten him with genital herpes if he dares to ask... :redface:

Reply 16

Monkey_Maiden

11

I love giving them :smile:

My ex was quite selfish though and I would say after going out for a year he gave it to me maybe 3 or 4 times whereas I would give it to him almost every time we slept together. I would have said no but I enjoy it :redface:

Plus the tastes nice :redface:

Reply 17

Angelil

19

This might sound odd but my boyfriend and I have made a bit of an arrangement with this.
I will give him head, BUT he has to make me stop before he comes, because I really wouldn't like it if he came in my mouth. From what I've heard it really isn't very pleasant!
Maybe this arrangement would work for the OP?

Reply 18

My gf doesnt want to give me 1 but she has not done it before so hopefully she will get used to the idea. I have been down on her and being a guy I quite enjoyd it. It cant be that bad surely, to make him totaly happy you should do it.

Reply 19

34253

2

Do you not think that the pleasure of your partner should come before you for half an hour? By crossing oral sex off the list youve pretty much halved the sexual relationship between you and your boyfriend. Atleast you get it in return its not as if he is asking you to do it with not returning the favour, if its the flavour you dont like get some of that cherry stuff from ann summers, if its the spunk you dont like ask him to tap you on the shoulder or something, just stop being an old lady before he goes elsewhere for his sexual gratification.

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