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Losing virginity to a one night stand

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Reply 20

User722716

Original post by sarahthegemini

Read my post, I didn't say the pain aspect was the only reason, awkwardness also plays a big part.

Read mine, I never said it was the only reason either. I said it wasn't a reason at all.

Reply 21

sarahthegemini

Original post by User722716

Read mine, I never said it was the only reason either. I said it wasn't a reason at all.

Pain is a valid reason :rolleyes:

Whether a girl uses a vibrator or not, it can still be painful ...

Reply 22

Anonymous #2

I lost mine to a ons. I didn't go out looking to lose it or anything. It just ended up going further. It wasn't too awkward actually great saw it as fun. I don't regret it , but the next person I get with with be someone I actually like.

Reply 23

chrisli87

I personally lost mine in a relationship... Which i guess would make you feel more comfortable. However losing it with someone you might never see again doesn't sound so bad. Hey if it's terrible (being the first time it may well be) at least it's not going to affect a relationship or anything.

Reply 24

User722716

Original post by sarahthegemini

Pain is a valid reason :rolleyes:

Whether a girl uses a vibrator or not, it can still be painful ...

There we go, reading my original post wasn't so hard was it? Sex can be painful for girls, of course it can. But there's absolutely no need for it to be painful, in particular there's absolutely no need for your first time to be more painful than any other.