I would like to share my experiences. I didnt realise that i had sticky out ears until the latter years of prmiary school when other kids would tease and indeed bully. I then progressed into a grammar school and got pretty much the same treatment though often it was less obvious. People would sometimes make comments or snigger behind my back.
I came from a very poor background,,from one of those broken homes you hear about. Non of my family were particularly well educated and i only made it to grammar because i passed the 11 plus. That was my BIG leg up in life.
I left big school and got a job and have been in work ever since. I have always worked and earned good money. In many respects i have been lucky.
But even through my teens and twenties i would look at myself and feel ugly. I hated myself and i resented my parent for not having the wit and intelligence to sort the problem out when i was a lot younger.
I had laboured under that burden of feeling ugly and different for decades as a kid. How much different would it have been if the parent had acted?
How much more confident would i have been?
In my early adult years i finally resolved to fix it. By then i was earning plenty of money and i finally went to see a well respected consultant Mr Clive Orton
http://baaps.org.uk/component/lendr/?view=surgeon&id=138&Itemid=200He told me that indeed i would benefit from surgery and i paid privately for it to be done.
I well remember the op in the private hospital,done under local anaesthetic with Mr Orton dressed in his surgical gown and his favourite music playing as he cut and stitched and we chatted about life in general.
I exited the hospital bandaged like a mummy and had to keep the bandages on for several weeks. It was quite painful and restrictive.
When i went to have them taken off, my ears looked like too huge red beefburgers..terrible,,but eventually the swelling subsided and now at last i look normal.
I cant tell you the difference it has made to my life which has always been a struggle.
I would advise anyone with similar issues to get it sorted as soon as possible and if you have to pay..well pay. Its worth it but remember to use a BAPS surgeon as there are plenty of cowboys out there.