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Original post by Leighton124
I want to get my ears pinned back because of getting bullied for the past two years meaning I stay in my room most of the time but my family don't have the money for it would then nhs do it?


how old are you?

Sorry to hear that you're being bullied!
Original post by Calculon
Is it possible to get this procedure done on the NHS once you are past a certain age? I am 20 years old and have quite 'sticky-out ears' and have always been massively self-conscious about them. Is it possible to actually get this done or would your chances be pretty much nil?

I don't want to make it look like I have a sense of entitlement, but there's not really any other way to get it done as by looks of it treatment just isn't affordable. For other medical issues I tend to go private anyway.

Thanks guys


Just go to your GP and really stress how much it is affecting your self-confidence and quality of life :smile:
Original post by Leighton124
I want to get my ears pinned back because of getting bullied for the past two years meaning I stay in my room most of the time but my family don't have the money for it would then nhs do it?


Yes.

I've had it done and I didn't pay. I didn't ask for them to be pinned back either, I had some bad injuries to them (if you've ever seen a Rugby player's ears you'll get the picture) and the surgeon said he'd pin them back as well. I didn't mind either way.

Explain to your GP your problem and ask him/her to refer you to an ear specialist. You'll then have an examination and chat with the specialist and be put on a waiting list. I waited about 3 months.

The procedure is pretty straightforward and not painful at all (it can be done with you conscious but I chose to go under general anaesthetic).

Be sure you want to do it though, the 10 days where you have to keep a bandage on your head is utter agony. Doesn't hurt but if you get an itch or want to wash your hair, you can't, and that will drive you mad, believe me.
Hi, not sure if anyone will read this as I realise this thread is old, but I had otoplasty earlier today and my ears are unbelievably sore!! they are throbbing continuously and the pain medication isn't making a difference at all.... is that normal? when should the pain subside? Thanks! x
Reply 24
How long did it take from the first appointment to the surgery?
Did you get it free on nhs how old are you
Did you ever get the procedure on the nhs
if this is something my taxes pay for then I can honestly say that this country is a ****ing mess
Original post by zippity.doodah
if this is something my taxes pay for then I can honestly say that this country is a ****ing mess


I understand your view but certain issues which affect appearance can have lifelong detrimental effects on a person causing mental illness,instability and having a serious effect on their quality of life and progress.

If someone seriously cant afford £3000 to have it done privately and it is having these effects and they are a child/younger person thewn consideration should be given to NHS treatment.

Having said that, there are plenty of people who cry poverty and yet have a nice Beeemer on the drive and plenty of annual holidays abroad so they need to check their priorities.

For anyone considering "plastic" surgery you need to forget the glossy brochures and ads. Surgery involves pain,blood,swelling and recovery.

Also not all surgeons are the same and there is not shortage of butchers out there.

Always choos a surgeon who is recommended and almost certainly one who is a member of the appropriately named BAAPs
http://baaps.org.uk/
I was referred to the hospital for further investigations but they cancelled it before I even made the appointment. I was very disappointed because I got my hopes up for nothing, my ears are big and stick out at a 90 degree angle, I've never seen anyone with bigger ears than mine! I can't afford the operation and neither can my family (well none are willing to pay). Is there anything else I can do? I'm desperate!!
Reply 30
I am 39 years old and been laughed at since primary school. I was at a night club recently and a couple of woman kept going on about how big my ears were. I thought it was finished a few years back but obviously not. I need them pinned back but cant afford it. What shall i do?
Original post by rivaside42
I was referred to the hospital for further investigations but they cancelled it before I even made the appointment. I was very disappointed because I got my hopes up for nothing, my ears are big and stick out at a 90 degree angle, I've never seen anyone with bigger ears than mine! I can't afford the operation and neither can my family (well none are willing to pay). Is there anything else I can do? I'm desperate!!



Original post by Oldemill
I am 39 years old and been laughed at since primary school. I was at a night club recently and a couple of woman kept going on about how big my ears were. I thought it was finished a few years back but obviously not. I need them pinned back but cant afford it. What shall i do?


Save up.

Best of luck
Don't think NHS would do something like that thanks to the cuts that the Conservatives have made to our healthcare system.
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I know this is an old thread but just thought I would share my experience for anyone considering this surgery because I know that reading posts like this really helped when I was struggling with deciding what was best to do, so if this manages to help just one person I will be happy!

I went to my GP and told them that my ears were bothering me, I was then referred to the hospital to have a psychological assessment. I waited about 5 months from my GP appointment to get this assessment. During the assessment I was asked about certain aspects of my life and why it was bothering me and then had some photos taken. She then said she would have a meeting to decide whether I was eligible to get a consultation with a surgeon. About a week or two later I received a letter saying I would be given an appointment with a surgeon. The surgeon agreed I should have them done and I got put on a waiting list. About a month or so later I was offered a surgery date. This was all free on the NHS. I'm currently still in the process of recovering from the surgery. But I hope that the hassle was worth it! Quite nervous about the results but hopefully it is fine.

I encourage anyone who's considering it to go to your GP and see what they say. I'm so glad that I did in the end.
Reply 34
Again I know this is an old post but I'm 41 and had mine done when I was 6 - I was bullied and I remember being taken to the doctor and a week later was in a hospital in South Wales having the operation - times have changed as was in hospital for a week and had the bandages for 6 weeks but it was the best decision my parents ever made - I have a daughter whose ears are not as bad as mine were but wouldn't give it a second thought if she wanted them done as it gives you so much confidence afterwards
There's a girl in my school who had this done.

At first NHS refused, but then she said she was getting bullied and started crying (she was 13 at the time) and they just gave in and pinned her ears back.

edit: she's 19 now.
Original post by Anonymous
I know this is an old thread but just thought I would share my experience for anyone considering this surgery because I know that reading posts like this really helped when I was struggling with deciding what was best to do, so if this manages to help just one person I will be happy!

I went to my GP and told them that my ears were bothering me, I was then referred to the hospital to have a psychological assessment. I waited about 5 months from my GP appointment to get this assessment. During the assessment I was asked about certain aspects of my life and why it was bothering me and then had some photos taken. She then said she would have a meeting to decide whether I was eligible to get a consultation with a surgeon. About a week or two later I received a letter saying I would be given an appointment with a surgeon. The surgeon agreed I should have them done and I got put on a waiting list. About a month or so later I was offered a surgery date. This was all free on the NHS. I'm currently still in the process of recovering from the surgery. But I hope that the hassle was worth it! Quite nervous about the results but hopefully it is fine.

I encourage anyone who's considering it to go to your GP and see what they say. I'm so glad that I did in the end.


How are you feeling now my friend?
I would like to share my experiences. I didnt realise that i had sticky out ears until the latter years of prmiary school when other kids would tease and indeed bully. I then progressed into a grammar school and got pretty much the same treatment though often it was less obvious. People would sometimes make comments or snigger behind my back.

I came from a very poor background,,from one of those broken homes you hear about. Non of my family were particularly well educated and i only made it to grammar because i passed the 11 plus. That was my BIG leg up in life.

I left big school and got a job and have been in work ever since. I have always worked and earned good money. In many respects i have been lucky.

But even through my teens and twenties i would look at myself and feel ugly. I hated myself and i resented my parent for not having the wit and intelligence to sort the problem out when i was a lot younger.

I had laboured under that burden of feeling ugly and different for decades as a kid. How much different would it have been if the parent had acted?

How much more confident would i have been?

In my early adult years i finally resolved to fix it. By then i was earning plenty of money and i finally went to see a well respected consultant Mr Clive Orton

http://baaps.org.uk/component/lendr/?view=surgeon&id=138&Itemid=200

He told me that indeed i would benefit from surgery and i paid privately for it to be done.

I well remember the op in the private hospital,done under local anaesthetic with Mr Orton dressed in his surgical gown and his favourite music playing as he cut and stitched and we chatted about life in general.

I exited the hospital bandaged like a mummy and had to keep the bandages on for several weeks. It was quite painful and restrictive.

When i went to have them taken off, my ears looked like too huge red beefburgers..terrible,,but eventually the swelling subsided and now at last i look normal.

I cant tell you the difference it has made to my life which has always been a struggle.

I would advise anyone with similar issues to get it sorted as soon as possible and if you have to pay..well pay. Its worth it but remember to use a BAPS surgeon as there are plenty of cowboys out there.
Original post by Anonymous
I would like to share my experiences. I didnt realise that i had sticky out ears until the latter years of prmiary school when other kids would tease and indeed bully. I then progressed into a grammar school and got pretty much the same treatment though often it was less obvious. People would sometimes make comments or snigger behind my back.

I came from a very poor background,,from one of those broken homes you hear about. Non of my family were particularly well educated and i only made it to grammar because i passed the 11 plus. That was my BIG leg up in life.

I left big school and got a job and have been in work ever since. I have always worked and earned good money. In many respects i have been lucky.

But even through my teens and twenties i would look at myself and feel ugly. I hated myself and i resented my parent for not having the wit and intelligence to sort the problem out when i was a lot younger.

I had laboured under that burden of feeling ugly and different for decades as a kid. How much different would it have been if the parent had acted?

How much more confident would i have been?

In my early adult years i finally resolved to fix it. By then i was earning plenty of money and i finally went to see a well respected consultant Mr Clive Orton

http://baaps.org.uk/component/lendr/?view=surgeon&id=138&Itemid=200

He told me that indeed i would benefit from surgery and i paid privately for it to be done.

I well remember the op in the private hospital,done under local anaesthetic with Mr Orton dressed in his surgical gown and his favourite music playing as he cut and stitched and we chatted about life in general.

I exited the hospital bandaged like a mummy and had to keep the bandages on for several weeks. It was quite painful and restrictive.

When i went to have them taken off, my ears looked like too huge red beefburgers..terrible,,but eventually the swelling subsided and now at last i look normal.

I cant tell you the difference it has made to my life which has always been a struggle.

I would advise anyone with similar issues to get it sorted as soon as possible and if you have to pay..well pay. Its worth it but remember to use a BAPS surgeon as there are plenty of cowboys out there.


Well done. How much did you pay for it just out of curiosity?

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Hi There I know this is an old post but Im 15 years old who is currently taking GCSE'S right now and because i am in one of the best secondary school in the UK. I have big ears and Having this affects my mental health in several ways because of the way i look with my ears. I can tell this by the presentations i do in school where i have groups of people constantly staring at me which not only puts my self esteem down but affects me physiologically.

So how does it effect physiologically Well, Every time im up to do presentation work which is essential to my life as its needed for interviews which is a big part that everyone has to take in this new generation. I always have that fear where people are gonna constantly stare at my ears which puts me down even if they don't say it.


Have i ever been bullied? No I haven't and as far as im concerned i dislike my appearance only because of my ears and the issue i had is difficulties in talking to anyone about this because not only can it be embarrassing but
also something which people wouldn't take seriously.

If i get this surgery done then I can talk and walk with confidencence without having anyone to look at my ears and think of me as a strange guy in addition i won't have to worry about doing presentations in front of hudreds of
people which will boost my self esteem to where it should be so i can concentrate better in lessons
and not have to worry once again about anything to do with my ears. I feel mentally traumatized to
look at myself in the mirror to see my appearance which could effect my life in the future.

So i wanted to know if i can get it free of charge because the costs in my area are around £3000-£3500 which is too high...
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