Why do girls still pretend to like 'nice' guys

It's funny that girls who've never been in a real fight think they can tell who's a pushover and who isn't. Most girls can only judge by appearances and can't sense danger unlike a guy. So they end up falling for some braggart who eventually takes the pretense too far and messes with the wrong guy. So you wanna sleep with tough guys but can you spot them?

Quite a few of these examples are married with kids, so obviously not epic fails with women.

You can, because their preferences and instincts are all determined by the same evolutionary process.

And yet, i've still not had it off with Jodie Marsh...
That'll be because she's a loudmouth arse whilst i'm a quiet lad currently listening to Bombay Bicycle Club.

You seem to seriously underestimate females. We're not all idiots.

This is exactly my point. They are married to ONE woman, and remain faithful. No fun at all.

'players' and 'jerks' avoid marriage because they can sleep with as many different females as they like. This is a much better deal for a man.

Seriously, the cat is out of the bag, your pretense has been blown apart.

We know that you only ever end up sleeping with the 'jerks' and 'players' who aren't interested in listening to your feelings or sending you flowers, only sex. i.e. Russell Brand, Charlie Sheen, Frankie Cocozza, Mark Ronson, Ashley Cole, Ryan Giggs, Mick Jagger, Rod Stewart et al.

Yet most girls on here will tell you that they don't like arrogant boys, and don't like being disrespected or played. Wouldn't it just be better to admit that you aren't able to respect 'nice' guys, and therefore don't find them attractive?

In my own experience, a few years ago when I had a girlfriend, some people started spreading some (false) gossip about me, and when she confronted me about it I told her that she could either believe me or them, either way I didn't care and that she could do what she wanted. Guess what? She came back and dropped the subject.

If I had protested my innocence or pleaded with her, she probably would have only seen me as a doormat and left me instead. This is how girl's minds work.

Actually the OP is dead right, and most of you do go for the bad-boy type. Stallions? When they crash and burn and you get older you try and settle down with a steadier sort of donkey. And the poor donkey has to carry your demands, your well experienced personality and your kids, and live with you and the fact that you've had your fun with many other guys. After all it's the 21st century and you as a woman deserve your fun, right? And it doesn't mean anything that you've been around the block a couple of dozen times. A real man would accept that, and respect it! Hahaha it's all so predictable.

ER. You clearly don't
I definitely don't like "bag guys". They're so f***ing full of themselves, it's ridiculous. I haven't felt attracted to a guy like that even once in my life.

This is exactly my point. They are married to ONE woman, and remain faithful. No fun at all.

'players' and 'jerks' avoid marriage because they can sleep with as many different females as they like. This is a much better deal for a man.

I definitely don't like "bag guys". They're so f***ing full of themselves, it's ridiculous. I haven't felt attracted to a guy like that even once in my life.

Actually the OP is dead right, and most of you do go for the bad-boy type. Stallions? When they crash and burn and you get older you try and settle down with a steadier sort of donkey. And the poor donkey has to carry your demands, your well experienced personality and your kids, and live with you and the fact that you've had your fun with many other guys. After all it's the 21st century and you as a woman deserve your fun, right? And it doesn't mean anything that you've been around the block a couple of dozen times. A real man would accept that, and respect it! Hahaha it's all so predictable.

I'm sure a tiny minority of women would look for such a pushover in a partner, but I highly doubt many women want a 'poor donkey' to carry her demands, nor would 'most' women go for a bad-boy type as a 'first choice'.

You sound ridiculously bitter.

I most certainly do not envy you your mindset. what made you so bitter?

Oh sure, who can fathom the mysteries of God?

You're assuming that when a girl says she wants a guy who isn't a pushover that she wants a guy who is physically strong. Taking things a bit literally.

But i'm sure your A level in psychology or the years of experience you've had (or haven't had) with girls at uni makes you an expert in these matters.

I meant 'poor donkey' as 'pitiable donkey'. It will be a rich donkey, or at least comfortably well-off.



That's better. Betray yourself and how you see the world. Losers and winners eh, and I'm not a bad-boy. I respect you when you speak the truth and not try to be something you're not. Face it you're an upright primate animal not the Virgin Mary.

This is exactly my point. They are married to ONE woman, and remain faithful. No fun at all.

'players' and 'jerks' avoid marriage because they can sleep with as many different females as they like. This is a much better deal for a man.

Oh sure, who can fathom the mysteries of God?

I think you're aware that I knew what you meant.

You just have a huge chip in your shoulder. Do you really think any women are going to be attracted to you with the attitude you have? And I never claimed to be the 'Virgin Mary' yet I am not a 'primate animal' either - why do you think people have to be one extreme or another?