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  1. Arekkusu's Avatar
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    it sometimes feels churlish to end on a full stop, also you must realise men only text in two situations:
    - to chat up a woman -> lots of x's
    - to sort something out with a woman -> lots of x's
    - to sort something out with a man -> ???

    so if they're sorting something out with a man they feel lots of pressure to put an x on the end because it seems very unfriendly if they don't because they're so used to it.

    Or that's how I think anyway. it is an awkward moment though and it's only EVER one x.
  2. alphabet's Avatar
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by Piprod01)
    Because "real men" are constantly afraid that their friendliness to other men might be misconstrued as sexual/romantic, and that might result in a situation where their sexual orientation is questioned?
    real men know better. if you were a real man, you would understand.
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by FrozenBeak)
    Why is it that males will text another male a message and put a 'x' on the end of the text or a '<3'

    What is the meaning of that? They love them? But if so, doesn't that mean...you know..
    I'd be pretty freaked out too.
  4. Niassuh's Avatar
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by Dmon1Unlimited)
    its taking the piss, just a joke thats all...
    like how some girls do the lesbian equivalent... doesnt mean anything lol
    I thought guys were to macho for that sort of joke?
    Last edited by Niassuh; 02-11-2011 at 17:52.
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    But if so, doesn't that mean...you know..


    Not.....the "Gay" word?
    Dun dun duhhhhhhhh
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by Niassuh)
    I thought guys were to macho for that sort of joke?
    So macho that they went back to using that sort of joke...

    Called a guy a "sexy beast" the other day :cool:
    ...though thats less of a gay joke and more me taking the piss out of him for looking like 'The Thing' from Fantastic Four...

    still counts though...
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    Bump - carry on discussing
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    Do it all the time and don't even notice. I put one x regardless of who it is. Content of the message is more important than what I place at the end tbh
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by Mr. Approachable)
    I do this all the time. Especially to my guy mates.
    good for you mate
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by 1crazydude)
    good for you mate
    I just share the love
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    lol, do they not do it just to be weird on purpose?

    I have one mate who does this to me but I always think he's being sarcastic with it. I HOPE he's being sarcastic...
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by Mr. Approachable)
    I do this all the time. Especially to my guy mates.
    :eek:
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by Dmon1Unlimited)
    i understand what 'x' is but what the hell is 'o'? hugs?
    xoxoxo

    Means hugs and kisses
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    It's just indicative of a close male relationship; it's not meant sexually, in the same way that girls send an x to their close girl friends, or a guy would send a single x to a girl that he isn't seeing. A singular x on its own is not sexual, but more than one is seen as more intimate.
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by tammie94)
    xoxoxo

    Means hugs and kisses
    oh the x's are hugs and the o's are kisses???

    my bad, thought it was the other way round...
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by Dmon1Unlimited)
    oh the x's are hugs and the o's are kisses???

    my bad, thought it was the other way round...
    Now you're confusing me

    You're right it is the other way round i.e x = kisses & o= hugs
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by FrozenBeak)
    Why is it that males will text another male a message and put a 'x' on the end of the text or a '<3'

    What is the meaning of that? They love them? But if so, doesn't that mean...you know..
    It's habit. Like typing lol and then going... why did I type lol?

    Some just do it for the craic - no worries.
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by 1crazydude)
    OK this 'x' doesent mean your gay just like it doesent mean if a girl puts and 'x' to their female friends it doesent mean she is a lesbian.

    exp male 1 : you coming out tonight mate?
    male 2 : yea mate i will see you tonight x

    That is not gay how ever

    male 1: you coming out tonight mate?
    male 2: yea babes il see you tonight big boi xxx

    This could possible be perceived as a comment with homosexual tendencies by some people
    This is honestly one of the best TSR posts I've ever read. I'll rep you when I can!
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by FrozenBeak)
    Why is it that males will text another male a message and put a 'x' on the end of the text or a '<3'

    What is the meaning of that? They love them? But if so, doesn't that mean...you know..
    What? Homo-love? Don't be shy and say it aloud, this is TSR not a school.
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    Re: Why do males text males this?
    (Original post by 1crazydude)
    OK this 'x' doesent mean your gay just like it doesent mean if a girl puts and 'x' to their female friends it doesent mean she is a lesbian.

    exp male 1 : you coming out tonight mate?
    male 2 : yea mate i will see you tonight x

    That is not gay how ever

    male 1: you coming out tonight mate?
    male 2: yea babes il see you tonight big boi xxx

    This could possible be perceived as a comment with homosexual tendencies by some people
    You are right, big boi xxx :cool:
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