Really scared!

My aunty called me earlier about a completely unrelated matter, but went on to tell me that my grandpa has a chest infection and is going in to a care home for a few days respite cos my grandma can't cope looking after him. Now this may not seem very worrying to most but my grandpa is very old and very frail and to be perfectly honest last someone said chest infection, care home and respite in the same sentence someone very close to me died less than 24 hours later. I can't cope with a third death this year. Men are falling around me like flies. I'm just so scared, I really want him to be ok, but there isn't one person in our family who didn't think the loss of two sons within 8 days wouldn't finish him off. Please give me some kind words and reassurance.

i am so sorry for your loss... be there for your grandfather all the time. visit him in the care home. be with him as often as you can.
i work at a care home and i can tell you that what old people need the most in such difficult situations, is having there family around them...and show that they are always there and love them...