I'm the one thats friend zoning others as I have yet to find someone I'm interested in (all or nothing kind of thing), and yes I'm in uni and have a well paid job so I don't have as many barriers.
I have met so many people and my life is going awesome at the moment, just this specific element that's getting me down.
And I know I do have to put in some effort, as it rarely happens without action (from my personal experience), I'm guessing I'm being too "picky", or am I shooting myself in the foot waiting (which may never happen).