every guy i get with decides they don't want a relationship with me....

lmaoooooooo same here, guys like how I look, get to know me and their gone!

Maybe cuz I dont open my legs up to them

To be honest I wouldn't want a relationship with you either if you've slept with 11 people. That to me is disgusting and intercourse would just feel dirty knowing 11 guys have been in there before. I like my girls to have some class.

It's difficult OP, because there are some guys that won't consider relationships before they've slept with a girl first. There are also guys (like the one above) that won't consider a relationship with a girl that's slept with 'too many' guys (which btw I don't think you have considering your age). There's no real solution to the problem. You could try waiting longer, and a guy that really likes you might wait, but again, some guys won't wait 6 or so months.
I wish I could be of more help.

To be honest I wouldn't want a relationship with you either if you've slept with 11 people. That to me is disgusting and intercourse would just feel dirty knowing 11 guys have been in there before. I like my girls to have some class.

ha ha, is this guy serious? Don't worry OP this guy will remain a virgin for much of his life. Experimentation is part of growing, wouldn't you say you've learnt from what you've been through, no matter how small?

the only reason i'm clearly a huge slut and have probably slept with more people than anyone else ever has in the world ..sarcasm... is because i've trusted so many guys. each of these guys i have gone on dates with, kept them waiting at least two months sometimes longer, and they have all ended up to just be using me, minus one which was my boyfriend at the time. if i didn't get messed around so much, i wouldn't have slept with 11 people... would probably be a lot less to be honest. i don't see how i'm such a bad person for giving guys a chance. and how this means i don't have class? you don't even know me. i said above i've never had a one night stand or even kissed a random guy. i don't even kiss people unless i'm sure i like them, gosh i don't even hug them. i'm a very shut off person, and it takes a lot for me to get close to someone. point is these guys have got me to let them in, and then dropped me.

Um... I never said you'd slept with that many people. Given your past experiences, I'd be more wary in the future though. Wait it out a little longer (maybe 4-6 months). It should increase the likelihood that if a guy is still hanging around then, he probably is interested in more than just sex.

i was referring to the poster before you don't worry! n thanks.

lmaoooooooo same here, guys like how I look, get to know me and their gone!

Maybe cuz I dont open my legs up to them

it's like you have to be a slut to keep them interested, but once i've slept with them once n i find out they don't want me, i'm not gonna keep sleeping with them like most girls would. just seems stupid

Girl i'm interested in is just like that...'cept i'm fighting for her :| Problem with women like this is after how guys mistreat them in the past - a decent guy comes along and she has all these predetermined thoughts that you won't be able to shake off so easily :s

Why waste time on a girl who thinks she should be chased? No woman is special enough for me to do that unless you enjoy being a whipping boy in the relationship.