It's NYE and i'm sat at home depressed

I'm stuck at home with just my mother as my sister has been invited by all her friend to go out. I texted my friend and asked him if he was doing anything on NYE and he said that he's too broke to do anything. Just yesterday on Facebook he was talking to his other mate and said that he's already bought his ticket for a party that's happening. Why would he lie? I've also seen on FB that they're all arranging a meet up and no one has invited me. I've texted them and they just say that they don't know what they're doing.
I'm tired of making all the effort. I don't know what to do and my mum just says that i shouldn't bother with people and be used to being on my own. She has no friends and its really pathetic how she doesn't see herself as much and just keeps coming into my room all the time which is annoying. I don't really have close friends at uni. My flatmates rarely go out and the societies i've joined go out mid-week but they're all mostly jocks and i don't think I'd get on with them.
What do i do in 2012 so that i can have real friends??

Dude.. how you are 'inexperienced'/not in a relationship/not out on NYE I will never know

I'm stuck at home with just my mother as my sister has been invited by all her friend to go out. I texted my friend and asked him if he was doing anything on NYE and he said that he's too broke to do anything. Just yesterday on Facebook he was talking to his other mate and said that he's already bought his ticket for a party that's happening. Why would he lie? I've also seen on FB that they're all arranging a meet up and no one has invited me. I've texted them and they just say that they don't know what they're doing.
I'm tired of making all the effort. I don't know what to do and my mum just says that i shouldn't bother with people and be used to being on my own. She has no friends and its really pathetic how she doesn't see herself as much and just keeps coming into my room all the time which is annoying. I don't really have close friends at uni. My flatmates rarely go out and the societies i've joined go out mid-week but they're all mostly jocks and i don't think I'd get on with them.
What do i do in 2012 so that i can have real friends??

You live in the sticks? Cba paying more than like 20 squid to get in someplace on NYE meself, unless it's gonna be a huge night!.. but then I am max Jewbags

You live in the sticks? Cba paying more than like 20 squid to get in someplace on NYE meself, unless it's gonna be a huge night!.. but then I am max Jewbags

Haha, awwh! Lincolnshire?

I'm afraid I've expended my knowledge of hick counties right there me dearie Which direction should I move in?..

Umm you may not want my thought or advice but I'll say anyway haha...

I'm 21 and I have no friends...I deleted my fb months ago cos I was so tired of hearing about other people's lives, people who didn't really care about me and vice versa.

I then left uni where I found it difficult to make friends.

I am now working as a care assistant and have taken up a new hobby (guitar) and although I have no friends I really don't mind. In Feb I will start studying with the OU. I love working so I have all sorts to focus on.

I do ask my mother whether I am a weirdo because I have no friends anymore whereas my older sister is forever going out with friends and her bf. She says no, I am just my own person and happy to be on my own.

At school I was really different; loads of friends and sociable. I lost all that when I went to college and it really bothered me so for two years i was just really sad. Now I don't care because I generally love my life.

So my advice to you is to delete fb, it ob. isn't doing any good to you, and your mum is probably right.

Loads of people will probably disagree with me but hey everyone's different.

Umm you may not want my thought or advice but I'll say anyway haha...

I'm 21 and I have no friends...I deleted my fb months ago cos I was so tired of hearing about other people's lives, people who didn't really care about me and vice versa.

I then left uni where I found it difficult to make friends.

I am now working as a care assistant and have taken up a new hobby (guitar) and although I have no friends I really don't mind. In Feb I will start studying with the OU. I love working so I have all sorts to focus on.

I do ask my mother whether I am a weirdo because I have no friends anymore whereas my older sister is forever going out with friends and her bf. She says no, I am just my own person and happy to be on my own.

At school I was really different; loads of friends and sociable. I lost all that when I went to college and it really bothered me so for two years i was just really sad. Now I don't care because I generally love my life.

So my advice to you is to delete fb, it ob. isn't doing any good to you, and your mum is probably right.

Loads of people will probably disagree with me but hey everyone's different.

You know i was thinking about deactivating my facebook. I waste so much time one it and it honestly does get depressing to see everyone out and about enjoying themselves and having fun.

Do you think that i should get used to being alone for all my life and not bother with people??

Happy new year to you

I too have had a depressing new year, i was home with my dad and mum watching bbc 1 when the fireworks went off. The thing that hit me most was that when i texted everyone , and one of my friends texted me saying the rest and i wish you a happy new year meaning they are all together without telling me.

But hey, im not going to worry its 2012 now just make the best of everything, theres people much worse then you so be happy.

Hope your 2012 goes great!